Hera
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- Dec 27, 2010
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I don't know what it is, but lately I've been ignoring my friends and sort of moving around different groups of people. I have periods where I like some people a lot and then I need to move away from that friendship for a bit and talk to other people etc. It doesn't mean I'm less of a friends to them, I just need time away. I need to switch it up, if you will. Aside from my consistent few (very few), everyone is part of my friend carousel.
But not everyone understands. I've been called a bad friend by some people for "ignoring" them. I don't know how to explain what's going on in my head so I just actually ignore them when they ask me things. I don't think I've even been this extreme about it, though I've always been this way.
Anyone know what this is like or am I just a horrible person who should feel bad for not being interested in what people ate for lunch last Tuesday?
But not everyone understands. I've been called a bad friend by some people for "ignoring" them. I don't know how to explain what's going on in my head so I just actually ignore them when they ask me things. I don't think I've even been this extreme about it, though I've always been this way.
Anyone know what this is like or am I just a horrible person who should feel bad for not being interested in what people ate for lunch last Tuesday?