Purplemoon
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- Joined
- Jun 20, 2016
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- MBTI Type
- IxFP
- Enneagram
- 5w6
I'm sorry for posting this. I know many on this site are probably getting more than a little annoyed by my post on finding my MBTI type, but please be patient with me. So, I usually get INFJ or INTJ on those online MBTI test that are floating around, while on enneagram test I usually get typed as a 9 or 5, while on Socionics test I usually get INFj, INTp, INTj, or INFp as my type. I just feel like I don't fit in with any of the type descriptions. When compared to feelers, I feel as though I'm too "harsh", so to speak, but when compared to thinkers, I feel as though I'm too "soft", if that makes any sense. The one thing I know for sure is that I'm an introvert--in fact, it's the only thing I'm comfident about in terms of my type. I have anxiety and depression, so I know that can through off the way I preceive myself.
•Here are some personality traits I have:
-I'm extrodinarily quiet, so quiet to the point that people forget that I'm in the room.
-I'm hard to read. I rarely show any facial or emotional expressions. All my life people have asked me to smile more. I don't see the point in smiling non-stop. If I know how I feel inside, why do you need to see it on my face. I think an individual knows how they feel--why not just take their word for it?
- I'm emotionally distant. I hate talking about feelings; I only tell them to people I trust. I prefer to write about my feelings in a diary. I don't think anyone has a right to know how I feel.
-I come across as rather cold. I'm not a bubbly, joyous person, and I never was.
-I hate small talk. I only do it to please other people. But I really do not care about how you feel about some celebrity or handbag.
-I'm soft-spoken, and I rarely state my opinions, unless it's something I actually care about.
-I don't get people who think in a black and white manner. I also struggle being around people who try to force their opinions on others.
-I am highly irritated by people who think they are morally superior to everyone else, and are constantly virtue signaling. I find the aggressive way they behave to be unconvincing.
-I dislike people who try to control me.
-I prefer to be by myself. Again, I like to write about my thoughts and about my impressions of the world than speak about them.
-When I do have to be in a group, I prefer it to be small and quiet, and I prefer to talk about ideas or more "academic" subjects rather than relationships, feelings, or "practical" plans.
-I'm not a very active person. I prefer to sit around and mull about my thoughts. I'm also not very aware of my physical surroundings.
-I like beautiful, delicate things, such as dainty jewelry or an understated lace evening dress.
-In terms of my personal taste, again, I like to be understated. I'd rather be dead than caught in animal print, obnoxious colors, tight sparkly dresses, or caked on makeup.
-I have trouble with putting my thoughts into words.
-I get drained by talkative people.
-I am extremely attracted to highly intelligent men, even though I'm not extremely intelligent myself.
-I'm not really interested in having a "high power" career. Actually, I'd rather be a housewife than have a career.
-I'm not really a "lovable" person. I hate being touched, and I'm not really sentimental. I also dislike cheesy, mushy gushy romantic crap. Most of it seems so fake to me.
-I need a way to channel my thoughts and ideas. I usually do this by writing, but sometimes I'll paint or draw.
-I'm an extremely private person. I find people who want to know everything about my private life strange. I'd never talk to a group of friends about something extremely intimate, such as my sex life. I don't see the point in talking about what man I'm sleeping with, or why anyone, even if they are friends, would be interested in such a topic.
I can't think of anything else about myself. Feel free to ask questions.
•Here are some personality traits I have:
-I'm extrodinarily quiet, so quiet to the point that people forget that I'm in the room.
-I'm hard to read. I rarely show any facial or emotional expressions. All my life people have asked me to smile more. I don't see the point in smiling non-stop. If I know how I feel inside, why do you need to see it on my face. I think an individual knows how they feel--why not just take their word for it?
- I'm emotionally distant. I hate talking about feelings; I only tell them to people I trust. I prefer to write about my feelings in a diary. I don't think anyone has a right to know how I feel.
-I come across as rather cold. I'm not a bubbly, joyous person, and I never was.
-I hate small talk. I only do it to please other people. But I really do not care about how you feel about some celebrity or handbag.
-I'm soft-spoken, and I rarely state my opinions, unless it's something I actually care about.
-I don't get people who think in a black and white manner. I also struggle being around people who try to force their opinions on others.
-I am highly irritated by people who think they are morally superior to everyone else, and are constantly virtue signaling. I find the aggressive way they behave to be unconvincing.
-I dislike people who try to control me.
-I prefer to be by myself. Again, I like to write about my thoughts and about my impressions of the world than speak about them.
-When I do have to be in a group, I prefer it to be small and quiet, and I prefer to talk about ideas or more "academic" subjects rather than relationships, feelings, or "practical" plans.
-I'm not a very active person. I prefer to sit around and mull about my thoughts. I'm also not very aware of my physical surroundings.
-I like beautiful, delicate things, such as dainty jewelry or an understated lace evening dress.
-In terms of my personal taste, again, I like to be understated. I'd rather be dead than caught in animal print, obnoxious colors, tight sparkly dresses, or caked on makeup.
-I have trouble with putting my thoughts into words.
-I get drained by talkative people.
-I am extremely attracted to highly intelligent men, even though I'm not extremely intelligent myself.
-I'm not really interested in having a "high power" career. Actually, I'd rather be a housewife than have a career.
-I'm not really a "lovable" person. I hate being touched, and I'm not really sentimental. I also dislike cheesy, mushy gushy romantic crap. Most of it seems so fake to me.
-I need a way to channel my thoughts and ideas. I usually do this by writing, but sometimes I'll paint or draw.
-I'm an extremely private person. I find people who want to know everything about my private life strange. I'd never talk to a group of friends about something extremely intimate, such as my sex life. I don't see the point in talking about what man I'm sleeping with, or why anyone, even if they are friends, would be interested in such a topic.
I can't think of anything else about myself. Feel free to ask questions.