What is is about loneliness that scares you?
I like being alone. I just don't want to die alone and pretty much have my life pass away without anyone knowing my existence.
Why do you want to have friends? What would you do with them?
As I said above I don't enjoy hanging out with 99% of people.
Why do you want a girlfriend? What would you do with her?
well I said a "girl". I'm a human being, I have my needs.
Why do you want to surround yourself with people?
I don't
What is it you want the world to understand?
to understand me
Why do you think the world hates you?
cause I don't play along with them.
Where does this anger and hate come from?
well I listed some of the stuff that makes me angry from this post
How would the world be like if you had all those things you want?
I dunno about the world but I would be happy if I had those things but I don't know for how long. I'm pretty sure I'll get bored with it.
Why wouldn't you be able to get all those things on your own?
cause I'm "werid"
What do you need to do to get all those things you want?
I would have to lie, listen to people's feeling that I don't really care about, ask them tons of questions that I don't care about, give lots of emotions, remember their names. I hate doing all these things..... and I'm pretty sure I'll look "fake" if I tried to do these things.
Do you expect other people to show you the way or are you willing to do something about it, other than complaining?
well, I know that telling you my problems won't solve anything. I was pretty much venting how I can't do anything about it.
My point is that unless you pick apart the things that cause you trouble, unless you try to find solutions, things will never get better.
I guess the main questions are: Do you want things to change? How bad do you want it?
I can't change, this is who I am. It's always been this way.
Good luck with everything.
Sky is blue, telling him to change or "do something about it" is ridiculous. What refreshed said is exactly what its like being INTP. Its like banging your head against a fu*king door until you meet another INTP
You can't change your preferences and its true that our preferences don't mesh well with mainstream society, but I'm okay with that most of the time because I know how deluded most humans are and its kinda cool to see the box from the outside
Refreshed mate try and get a few intuitive friends, if you wanna blow off some steam I highly recommend rave parties, its impossible to piss people off at them =P if that's not your thing get into ANY alternative scene, I've found most of the alternative crowds will have more intuitive thinkers and its SO good to have a decent conversation, it pretty much centers me
Like all humans INTPs need SOME social interaction, so I completely understand your frustration because lets face it, most people are complete douche heads to INTPs, make us out to be weird and shit, you know what society FUCK YOU! you're the weird ones, look how fucked up the world is, maybe you should listen to the minoritys cause the majority is getting it wrong
well I agree I need some social interaction but I only met 2-5 in my life that I enjoy their company. yup they pretty much call us "werid" or "creepy".