INFP + ENTJ is pretty much amazing, it just requires two people who aren't emotionally retarded.
Yeah. ENTJs have a tendency to be insensitive pricks until they've learned that that doesn't work. If they haven't learned that lesson, there's gonna be problems. But they also tend to learn pretty quickly, but sometimes even that comes too late..
I hope you don't mind me making my comments in the thread rather than in our little conversation.. I can't help but organize my thoughts in the thread here
My INFP's cute social awkwardness and shyness are qualities that help form the whole picture of what I'm attracted to in her, somewhat of a detached but anchoring quality. I don't mind making all the moves in this relationship, but I also wouldn't mind if she initiated something. I just don't expect her to, and I'm completely fine with that. As I said, it just means that I have to tone down my usual very direct nature
I know the male/female roles are somewhat "reversed" in your case, but personalities are personalities.. the same approach would probably apply.
I met her at a dance and then asked her out for coffee.. the implication was clear, that I wanted to try to get to know her better because I saw potential. In your case, she might appreciate you just asking her; she very well could initiate from there if you end up setting up the first meeting.
If she's anything like me.. if she's interested in you or becomes interested in you, she'll take at least a shallow approach at researching you. That might mean looking over your web profile as another tool to get to know you as a person. It doesn't mean that you have to impress her online or put up a lot of detailed information.. but such research just gives us more to work with. We love using resources to their full capacities
Once I found a profile of hers online, it just allowed me to make more sense of her as a person, and now I know better of what we can talk about which will allow me to make even
more sense of her. You all can be pretty mysterious sometimes
Something else I've noticed is that she tends to apologize a lot. For example, when I tutored her, I ended up finishing up minutes before
my class started and she apologized.. from my perspective, I was the one who made the choice to help her and I accepted the paltry consequence of potentially being late for my class. I got a lot of satisfaction out of helping her. I don't find it annoying or anything.. I just felt bad that I made
her feel guilty.
I'm sure I'll come up with some actual questions for you later.. thanks for your offer to help!
(wow.. lots of smileys..)