KLessard
Aspiring Troens Ridder
- Joined
- Apr 25, 2008
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- 1w2
I have recently suffered deep shame and sadness from being hurt by and unwillingly hurting someone I care about and that incident put an end to the relationship.
I apologized, humiliated myself and did what I had to do about it. The person told me not to hold on to my negative feelings and to stop feeling bad about it, but I find myself in a situation where everything that revolved around her makes me feel kind of bitter. That person had a big place in my idealistic perspectives, and tons of things I love, care about and inspire me are linked to her in some way (in my head, at least). How do you deal with this kind of bitterness?
I feel like I can't allow myself to love those things or find joy in them anymore.
I apologized, humiliated myself and did what I had to do about it. The person told me not to hold on to my negative feelings and to stop feeling bad about it, but I find myself in a situation where everything that revolved around her makes me feel kind of bitter. That person had a big place in my idealistic perspectives, and tons of things I love, care about and inspire me are linked to her in some way (in my head, at least). How do you deal with this kind of bitterness?
I feel like I can't allow myself to love those things or find joy in them anymore.