Same as you deal with any type. You understand that they are different from you and remember that "wrong" isn't the definition of different.
Something that needs to be internalised first of all, before the OP can move onto the next stage of human relations, by the looks of it.
I had a huge personal problem at one stage and I found a lot of my friends didn't stick by me. The majority of the ones that did were the sensors ....But having a good, loyal person in your life is more important IMO and worth all the other difficulties.
+1000
That's a lesson I learned in a similar way. When I went through my "controversial crisis", it was the Sensors who stuck by me and the Intuitives mainly, who found they couldn't reconcile their "beliefs" with my circumstances and so, were willing to overlook the many years of loyal friendship and the facts of my actual personality, in order to decide, based on a theory, that I wasn't worthy. The Sensors would say "you're a decent guy, you never let a friend down, you're fun to hang out with, anything else doesn't matter".
My two best friends now are an SP and an SJ.
You just be yourself, and as long as "yourself" actually
is someone worthwhile, then your choices and actions will be Sensed by those Sensors, they'll notice, and that will speak volumes to them. Just because they might not be "hip" to all your (amazing and astounding and original, no doubt) ideas, doesn't mean they don't "get" you. I've learned that the Sensors in my life often get me in a way I don't even get myself. They're there to give me reality checks - in a way it's their respect that means more to me than anything else, because they tell me whether my ACTIONS actually match my theories and principles.