Snow Turtle
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What exactly do you expect?
1. Speak to the person.
2. Do nothing.
As much as I can sympathise with anxiety issues and social phobia. They shouldn't be used as an excuse to avoid the person. You guys are asking for the impossible?
Fine here's a third option.
Saint Kar go find out whether the ESFJ is interested, or speak on massacres behalf. But ultimately look at the bigger picture here. If you don't have the courage to speak to him, how exactly are you going to be in a relationship with each other? It took my INFJ friend three years to finally speak out about her feelings, but the point remains she did so in the end. There was no other way around it.
1. Speak to the person.
2. Do nothing.
As much as I can sympathise with anxiety issues and social phobia. They shouldn't be used as an excuse to avoid the person. You guys are asking for the impossible?
Fine here's a third option.
Saint Kar go find out whether the ESFJ is interested, or speak on massacres behalf. But ultimately look at the bigger picture here. If you don't have the courage to speak to him, how exactly are you going to be in a relationship with each other? It took my INFJ friend three years to finally speak out about her feelings, but the point remains she did so in the end. There was no other way around it.