agspath
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Hey! I thought this would be a cool way to ask you guys what you think my type is. I had recently put up a thread on this forum...but that really led me nowhere. I appreciate all those who helped me. I know I use Ne/Si. I want you guys to help me analyze if my reaction in this story was that of Te/Fi or Ti/Fe. So, here's a story that happened to me today:
Last night, Sarah and I left our project which we had been working on for one month in the library. The librarian said she'd keep it safe and allow us to come and grab it today. So we arrived today and lo and behold! the project was missing. The librarian though that our project must have been picked up by the custodians. She was afraid it'd been thrown out.
Now, we went to the custodian but he said he didn't know where it was...so it had either been thrown out or lying in the dumpster. So Sarah and I headed towards the dumpster, the custodian in tow. At this point Sarah was at the point of tears and although she is shy and was averting her eyes because she didn't want anyone to know maybe. I was pacing alongside her across the hallway telling her all the ways we could redeem our grade if we didn't find the project. I was fairly stoic but I was sad too at first, however I didn't cry or anything. I was coming up with "battle plans" and thinking of a million different ideas we could redeem our grades. I was probably frightening her by saying things like "if we don't find the board we can do this...or this..." I didn't take her feelings of fear and anguish into consideration at that moment. I was merely coming up with various ideas we could work this out.
In my head I was figuring out how I could take control of the situation and manage the situation ie "If Sarah burst into tears I will do this" In retrospect I didn't realized I was stressed out...it was only after we found the board in the dumpster my teacher had to ask me to take a breath and then make the folded edges smooth etc. I also regret verbalizing my "million ideas battle plan" because it probably made me look like a frantic ExxJ.
In short, Sarah actually expressed her emotions even though she was trying to cover it up it was evident. I don't think it was as evident on my face because she mention how she was at the point of tears and I was actually scaring her instead of helping her get through it.
Last night, Sarah and I left our project which we had been working on for one month in the library. The librarian said she'd keep it safe and allow us to come and grab it today. So we arrived today and lo and behold! the project was missing. The librarian though that our project must have been picked up by the custodians. She was afraid it'd been thrown out.
Now, we went to the custodian but he said he didn't know where it was...so it had either been thrown out or lying in the dumpster. So Sarah and I headed towards the dumpster, the custodian in tow. At this point Sarah was at the point of tears and although she is shy and was averting her eyes because she didn't want anyone to know maybe. I was pacing alongside her across the hallway telling her all the ways we could redeem our grade if we didn't find the project. I was fairly stoic but I was sad too at first, however I didn't cry or anything. I was coming up with "battle plans" and thinking of a million different ideas we could redeem our grades. I was probably frightening her by saying things like "if we don't find the board we can do this...or this..." I didn't take her feelings of fear and anguish into consideration at that moment. I was merely coming up with various ideas we could work this out.
In my head I was figuring out how I could take control of the situation and manage the situation ie "If Sarah burst into tears I will do this" In retrospect I didn't realized I was stressed out...it was only after we found the board in the dumpster my teacher had to ask me to take a breath and then make the folded edges smooth etc. I also regret verbalizing my "million ideas battle plan" because it probably made me look like a frantic ExxJ.
In short, Sarah actually expressed her emotions even though she was trying to cover it up it was evident. I don't think it was as evident on my face because she mention how she was at the point of tears and I was actually scaring her instead of helping her get through it.