VILLANELLE
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- Aug 8, 2016
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- MBTI Type
- ESFP
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- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
I'm ENFJ and have Fe but I don't think I'm very popular. I know I'm not. I don't think that matters. ENFJs mostly want harmony, I think, and unity, as opposed to being the leader. I was/never have been a leader, I've always wanted to be a part of a group, or have friends. But I don't think too many people want to be my friend anymore, as my closest friendship seems to be falling apart. Or they're fine with being distant. I'd bring it up to them, but I know they'll just blow me off or be like "we're fine" or "ofc" or something. As they usually lie to me.
I've always struggled with popularity and maintaining friendships. I think the popularity around here is a matter of who's posting the most, and perhaps their posts are liked. Be it because of the person who's posting, or the information they're sharing. I'd base it on the information they're sharing, because people find it valuable to certain topics/discussions. That's not a bad thing at all.
I've always struggled with popularity and maintaining friendships. I think the popularity around here is a matter of who's posting the most, and perhaps their posts are liked. Be it because of the person who's posting, or the information they're sharing. I'd base it on the information they're sharing, because people find it valuable to certain topics/discussions. That's not a bad thing at all.