I don't think INFPs or INFJs are ideal types for ESTPs necessarily, though I have never seen or met an ESTP-INFJ couple. I was just putting down traits. I didn't mean me or INFPs.
Wouldn't ESTPs like Fe or Si doms? There is a major communication disconnect I feel between Se and Ni, Se and Ne. ESTPs do have this realllllyy crass sense of humor that I actually do find off-putting. It's funny sometimes...but only sometimes.
"As far as duality goes, lets not mix up INFp with INFP. ESTP's dual is Ni Fe which is INFJ. INFJ's are crude, INFP's are not."
But let's not immediately associate socionics INFp with typology/myers briggs INFP. Socionics is really confusing to me. I read that in introverts, you switch the P with the J. But how does that make sense? And if duality is ideal, that means socionics INFps should be with ESTJs? What?!
http://www.socionics.com/articles/howto.htm
"INFJ's will naturally act as tactful translators for ESTP's.
INFP's will try to tell the ESTP how to speak properly, but it'll only be naturally interpreted as criticism by ESTP's.
INFJ's will use their Ni to predict the consequences of ESTP's actions. INFP's are not known for such a talent.
INFJ's will be invigorated by the ESTP's crude roughhousing nature as the ESTP brings out the INFJ's Se,
INFP's will be turned off or try to nullify the ESTP's energy and get them to calm down, which isn't what ESTP's want."
Lol...that's exactly what I wanted to do. Along the lines of ... can you stop being so mean?