Halla74
Artisan Conquerer
- Joined
- Jan 20, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ESTP
- Enneagram
- 7w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
I just called my brother that last week.
You are nefarious, ruthless, and without mercy.
Cheers!
-Halla
I just called my brother that last week.
He deserves it, I think he is ESTP.
the issue with ESTPs are they don't see the depth of an issue. their first reaction to anything is strike strike strike.
I admire how buoyant ESTP's seem to be. Do they ever get depressed? What does that look like?
Believe it or not, it happens. I have two best friends, one male and one female. Can't remember if/when the male one was depressed, but I'd go as far to say that the girl one gets down more than I do. They definitely don't share it with the world, just people they think will understand... i.e., mostly only like minded people.
I admire how buoyant ESTP's seem to be. Do they ever get depressed? What does that look like?
They just seem always very upbeat, which is nice and rather infuriating.
One of my best friends is an ESTP. She is very blunt and straightforward and doesn't care what anyone thinks of her. She knows she comes off as a bitch and and she says it out loud she says 'I'm a bitch. If someone has a problem with that, they don't have to hang around me.' She's really sweet to me though, but still blunt. I think she is particular about the people she is a bitch too... because I've seen her act as sweet as she is with me with others as well. Though she is a total bitch to children,[/B] she hates them. I think they are creepy too, most of them. So, she is a bitch with a soft sweet caramel center, sprinkled with thumbtacks... and I love her for all of it.
So no, I don't think she is evil.
ESTP women are extremely aggressive. well it is not natural for a girl to be aggressive and dominant. Others are not used to it. i think this is why they appear to be bitchy and evil.
the issue with ESTPs are they don't see the depth of an issue. their first reaction to anything is strike strike strike.
That is Se not entirely ESTP. other Se dominant types have it too. but not as aggressively developed as in ESTPs.
Se is action. not think things through.
They argue and fight at every small issue in the same way.
meaning they fight the same way a cornered tiger would at every argument.
Big or small they strike you the same way a cornered tiger would.
Gamesmanship is the calling card of the ESTP. Persons of this type have a natural drive to best the competition. Some of the most successful salespersons are ESTPs. P.T. Barnum ("Never give a sucker an even break") illustrates the unscrupulous contingent of this type.
Almost unconsciously the ESTP looks for nonverbal, nearly subliminal cues as to what makes her quarry "tick." Once she knows, she waits for just the right time to trump the unsuspecting victim's ace and glory in her conquest. Oddly enough, the ESTP seems to admire and respect anyone who can beat her at her own game.
Another thought on ESTP women . . . nothing escapes their notice, they make really good spies or CIA operatives.
They also can get ANY information out of just about ANYONE . . . except possibly an unusually stubborn ISTP.