I think I’m a good and very approachable individual, and I think that ENTJs are simply misunderstood.
I am very opinionated, and I assert those opinions, but I’m not too overbearing. I do think I am right until I am proven wrong, and I can usually persuade others to my way of thinking. If I think someone I respect is questioning my competence, I can try far too hard to try to prove myself to them.
I get along with most people, and most of my peers respect me for taking the reins in group projects and class discussions. I would say I am well liked, and am not seen as being too domineering.
When it comes to meeting people, I try to get to know them without forming preconceptions. I commonly find people who have beautiful personalities, but I don’t connect with intellectually. When I come across someone I can connect with intellectually, I am usually turned off by their arrogance. Because of this I have a wide range of acquaintances, but very few close friends that I can talk and debate with, which is a very important pass time for me. All of these people are very strong Ns.
I can be an internal bitch, and commonly have an urge to say things that are critical and could be perceived as hurtful, but I have learned that that kind of behavior gets me nowhere in life, so I repress it about 85% of the time. In turn, most everyone thinks I’m a sweetheart. When I do unleash my tongue, I think it is warranted, and it is usually because of inefficiency or ignorance. I hate hate HATE both inefficiently and ignorance.
I think that meanness is a sign of a lack of self control.
I like to argue the unpopular unrepresented side of a topic in discussion just for fun. I like for the people I surround my self with to be truly aware of the topic, so I see it as my job to educate them.
I am open minded, and I am always looking to learn, and it is easy for me to forgive and forget.