So what's the point in telling anyone you're an ENTJ? Are ENTJ's fundamentally disliked, and how to resolve the paradox of a personality that is disliked yet manages to become a leader so often?
I've learned the real value of leaders, good leaders, and let me tell you, as a proto-monk (heheh) I have to do an awful lot of obeying of lots of different people, and there is NOTHING as awesome as a leader and just a human being, as an ENTJ monk! It's like I just think something, and we only need to make eye contact, and before we know it, we've made it happen.
I've also had the only happy relationship I ever had in my life with an ENTJ. My business partner is ENTJ and we have great laughs, I've no reservations about him and would trust him with my life - I sometimes worry this doesn't go both ways (he doesn't entirely trust me and sometimes thinks I'm more fickle/unreliable than I really am), and it means a lot to me if I get signs of his respect.
ENTJ is actually my favourite type, I have a sort of simbiotic relationship with them, and my life and world feels empty without one nearby. I've got along great with every one I've met (granted, it has been said that it's because I'm one of the few who isn't shit-scared of them), and if anything I have a great prejudice
towards them because of this! I can't say anything about other people's prejudices or other types, but I know that from my POV, ENTP + ENTJ = world domination*
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Mind you Maverick, that avatar doesn't exactly say 'cuddly and approachable', does it?
*that is, total pwnage of anything we set out to do together