He was full of determination. He decided that if I couldn't come to see him, he would come to me. BUT, then he got drunk and drove into the back of a parked car. So there went the money for the trip.
I was LIVID about the drunk driving.
Yeah, hmmmm. Now that this is in print, it's sounding even worse.
That's awful, I'm unsure that this is to do with him being ENTJ so much as a less than exemplary individual when it comes to processing and managing his feelings, whatever feelings he was experiencing which caused for the drink driving, and they could've been good feelings, not even anxiety or anything like that, he needs to address that, big style.
I'm an archetypical ENTJ, not great with feelings, its not a strong function, it can be overwhelming and I usually have to look for it as spontaneously experience it but I dont behave irresponsibly as a consequence.