More or less, for an ENXJ to spend more time with Ni, you need just to step away from the Se, just put it down, man, just take it easy, no one's going to hurt you today!
A quiet place, a few moments of peace, close your eyes, drift off into dream.
But you don't want to do that, really. I'm just saying, there's terrible--I don't know what you call them, I just call them "things"--there's terrible "things" down there. No, it's really better to leave them alone. They have this awful, hungry desire to get out and... and... like, grow? I think they want to become real, y'know? Like bursting through into this world? It's really better to just leave them alone.