alcea rosea
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- ENFP
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- 7w6
I think unconsistent is the word here. ENFP's are unconsistent in their behavior and that is the most charasteritic. The behavior is not the same in a long run but it varies depending on the people, situation, the mood and so on. I think some types are more consistent in their behavior, but ENFP's aren't one of those types.
But to know an ENFP, in my opinion, is much harder than with many other types. I mean ENFP's are chameleons that change color according to the situation and the people and are quite open in their communication and about their personality. But very rarely other people really take time to actually get to know another person, and to really know ENFP, deep down, that doesn't really happen too often in my experience. People just think they know you but actually they don't have a clue who you are. It's actually quite annoying. Somekind of miscommunication between openness and randomness of ENFP's behavior and unconsistency and being warm to people they meet (not all but most).
But this is my experience , don't really know if it's what you other ENFP's feel....?
But to know an ENFP, in my opinion, is much harder than with many other types. I mean ENFP's are chameleons that change color according to the situation and the people and are quite open in their communication and about their personality. But very rarely other people really take time to actually get to know another person, and to really know ENFP, deep down, that doesn't really happen too often in my experience. People just think they know you but actually they don't have a clue who you are. It's actually quite annoying. Somekind of miscommunication between openness and randomness of ENFP's behavior and unconsistency and being warm to people they meet (not all but most).
But this is my experience , don't really know if it's what you other ENFP's feel....?