INTPness
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Question for Eeh enn eff pees:
Introverts are often able to have some really great conversation through writing. Intense and fun and it builds to the point where the introverts eventually want to meet each other. My experience with ENFP's has been a bit different in that you guys seem to feed off of the energy of being with another person. And I've read posts on here that kind of say the same thing: We like people's energy, etc. Yet you guys are here posting on the internet, so you must get some enjoyment out of written communication.
Anyways, to the point: I'd like to strike something up with an eeh enn eff pee acquaintance that I know I won't be able to see for several months. I'm totally fine with that. The written communication, for me, is my chance to get to know her slowly and, ideally, it would culminate with me taking her on a friendly date when I'm in her area.
Does the idea of building a "written friendship" hold any value or is she more likely to think, "Just forget the pen-pal thing and call me when you get to town?"
Thoughts?
Introverts are often able to have some really great conversation through writing. Intense and fun and it builds to the point where the introverts eventually want to meet each other. My experience with ENFP's has been a bit different in that you guys seem to feed off of the energy of being with another person. And I've read posts on here that kind of say the same thing: We like people's energy, etc. Yet you guys are here posting on the internet, so you must get some enjoyment out of written communication.
Anyways, to the point: I'd like to strike something up with an eeh enn eff pee acquaintance that I know I won't be able to see for several months. I'm totally fine with that. The written communication, for me, is my chance to get to know her slowly and, ideally, it would culminate with me taking her on a friendly date when I'm in her area.
Does the idea of building a "written friendship" hold any value or is she more likely to think, "Just forget the pen-pal thing and call me when you get to town?"
Thoughts?