2XtremeENFP
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Are there any ENFP females who find themselves scared of marriage, being a stereotypical housewife and/or having children?
These things make me feel like I am going to change who I am and just cause me to lose all independence and free spirit.
Thinking of myself as a 'motherly' type doesn't match. I don't feel I am that responsible. I feel like I want to have kids and can daydream about it, but if i try and REALLY think about it REALISTICALLY I start to freak out. I feel like I am always going to be young at heart and never be 'ready' for these things.
Are there any ENFPs who felt this way or still feel this way? Did you used to think like this, but once it happened, you got used to it?
These things make me feel like I am going to change who I am and just cause me to lose all independence and free spirit.
Thinking of myself as a 'motherly' type doesn't match. I don't feel I am that responsible. I feel like I want to have kids and can daydream about it, but if i try and REALLY think about it REALISTICALLY I start to freak out. I feel like I am always going to be young at heart and never be 'ready' for these things.
Are there any ENFPs who felt this way or still feel this way? Did you used to think like this, but once it happened, you got used to it?