runvardh
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- Joined
- Jun 23, 2007
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
Yeah, I'm not going to lie, gaining my trust is a very long road. The smoother it is the longer it takes.
It didn't help that she gradually started cutting off opportunities left and right till I figured "Fuckit!" sent her one last message over Facebook and gave her two weeks to respond. I didn't tell her she had two weeks, with how infrequently she was answering compared to what she had before I figured two weeks was enough time to just call it quits. As a P I get tired of taking the inititive repeatedly and either getting shrugged off or ignored.
Before that crap happened she wanted to downgrade things to friends. When I'd act like a friend she'd get all tense like I wasn't doing enough. And when I seemed to have been doing enough to make her happy she'd go into guilt mode and pull back.
Honestly, I'd welcome a longer road instead of one night just jumping all over me then cooling off from there.