ceecee
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 8w9
If only they were all like you. Unfortunately, an awful lot of them will not let that be the end of the conversation, because if you say No, then they want to know how it does make you feel and then argue with whatever you say, telling you you're wrong to feel it or taking your feeling as a judgement on them or someone else. And if you say yes, then ... etc...
I don't think I can remember a single time when I've been asked how I felt, and the asker has been contented with a one word or short answer; can't remember one time in my life when they've asked me that, and weren't spoiling for a heart to heart that became a drama fest.
This is absolutely true in my experience also. I can only attribute my ENFJ's ability to take a yes or no answer to him being male. My F women friends do exactly what you describe. Or want to but I rarely let them. And they can't fathom how you just don't have a feeling about something.