tcdaIt's just a fact I'm afraid. I'm not a misogynist, rationally I believe in feminism. But with real life women, I just, don't get 'em.
I mean don't get me wrong, I know how to "pull" (as we say in Landan Town) etc. - I just find it pathetic the way that by acting in a way that I find annoying/transparent, I can "pull", whereas by acting in a way I find genuinely admirable, I wouldn't. So it's not that I don't know the rules, I just don't get them.
So a few questions:
1.) Why is it that women will pretend to want a nice guy etc., but really are fascinated by you if you are an asshole, and will harrass you to show a "human" side, but then, soon get bored once you have shown it (or at least, if you don't turn it off very quickly).
It's the equivalent of the guy who wants a whore/kinky/wild in the bedroom but doesn't want her to be one when you first meet.
2.) Leading on from that, why be annoyed by arrogance when this is what attracted you in the first place, and when there were plenty of non-arrogant guys who like you, who you could go for, but don't.
Because nice shouldn't equal boring but it often does. IMO, you don't need to be an asshole for women to react to you in a positive way you just have to be inaccessible at times. That means: Make them wonder.
3.) Why demand the hypocrisy that someone be "ambitious" or an "alpha male" in more general terms, but that they not be an asshole, when clearly, the two can't be seprated (by definition, climbing above other people, means taking advantage of situations for your benefit at their expense, i.e., being an asshole)? So why do we have to play some game of denying assholery while at the very same time taking a shit on everyone else?
Answered above. Guys do the same thing just in different ways. Women and men both want the same thing - a challenge. Just so happens that guys take this to the extreme by being assholes and women do the same thing by being whores. It's not what guys or girls really want. Now. Some people are just whores and assholes and that's who they are. God bless 'em. But for most people as described and in your OP they attempt to be something other than they are. You shouldn't. Be yourself but know your audience. You have to play a little bit of the game. Sorry to say. Like I said. Be inaccessible to a woman. It makes them curious. Just as a guy will have to wonder if they can "get" the girl. See?
Actually those 3 questions are probably all the same, but whatever.