it's just incomprehensible to me how on earth I could have such a deep effect on anyone. I come from a background history of being ignored, ignored, ignored, no matter what I did, however extreme, sending me the dual message of: all of this is get away with-able and what's more, there's nothing you could ever do, so insignificant are you, that can affect others. Quite simply, nobody cares a damn what you have to say or what you think, so go ahead, you might as well say what you please.
I wonder though why it seems the ENTP is the one remonstrated for having this 'deep effect' rather than the other person thinking about whether they perhaps ought to question why on earth they're so affected? I mean, to be so affected would surely mean you hold that person in very high esteem... how would that have come about if they're such an asshole as you're claiming? Question 2: why do you love assholes?