mooseantlers
Knobgoblin
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- ESFP
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leave marm alone
I would concur with Marm that INFJ is an unlikely type for this person. INFJs will come across as being very similar to INTJs, to the point that one can easily be mistaken for a polite INTJ (and vice versa). If an INFJ has a problem with you, their typical action is to avoid you, exclude you from invitations, or make catty remarks about you and gossip about you. They will avoid confrontation because it's very stressful for them.
I'm less sure whether ISFP is a more likely type for your "certain female", but in general, an Fi type is more likely to say things that would strongly affect an ENTJ (with Fi inferior, it's hard to activate, but when it does, it goes boom!). And Marm is correct that an unhealthy ISFP is very likely to come up with all sorts of wild excuses and accusations, resorting to tertiary Ni to make up stories. In this regard, an ISFP makes up BAD stories at which most people will roll their eyes, while an unhealthy INFJ makes up credible stories (gossip behind your back) that others are very likely to believe.
Whatever her type, I would suggest that you not have such a person close enough to you to mess up your life.
this is how i am very polite to the person i'm mad at than go tell other people how much i hate them. i'm very non confrontational, hmmm maybe I'm not an INFP.
Maybe, but this isn't decisive. INFPs aren't confrontational, either.
yeah i sort of said that, half heartely
yes i do online, but irl, i'm too afraid of being punched in the face to do so.or seeing them cry, i can't stand when people cry.But you do kind of go off on people and tell them exactly what you think, sort of like I do, except different.
At least on line you do this. I know, because you get banned for it. Hrm?
yes i do online, but irl, i'm too afraid of being punched in the face to do so.or seeing them cry, i can't stand when people cry.
Yeah I'm selfish, but i make awesome food so that makes up for itAh, but you do it on-line, and those are Fi reasonings for avoiding confrontation in real life. You don't want to get punched in the face. You don't like to see other people cry, because it empathetically hurts your Fi.
No mention of avoiding confrontation to promote social harmony or make people happy or because it's the morally correct thing to do.
I avoid confrontation IRL typically because I don't want to hurt people or bring problems upon my self. When I do confront people it's because I feel that it would be cowardly and enabling not to.
Yeah I'm selfish, but i make awesome food so that makes up for it
(i Know, but i am i rarely take other people into account)We have so much in common!
(And I didn't mean you were selfish, either).
(i Know, but i am i rarely take other people into account)