Yes exactly. And it even lightens up that this a general problem of every rational function, Js could be just more prone to it, because its their strongest function.
I havent still found a reasonable explanation of why especially IJs lack self-confidence. I have three direct candidates for my theory, which I could name from my friends, where one is ISTJ, one INTJ and one INFJ and they all had major problems with self-confidence. All of the three had a big mouth and the ability to bend reality the way that it works within the parameters of their own reasoning process. But a man with eyes on the other hand could always see that there is a very vunerable person within, which appears to be highly unstable, when not haphazard.
I dont want to change them, I never tried, if they are happy that way they could be all their life, but I know from them personally that they dread their lack of self-confidence the most.
Maybe its just my perception playing tricks on me and I see errors in a system, where are none. But I have this fine-tuned sensitivity to exactly look through the eyes of the person standing in front of me and to hear the little impurities in a diamond.
Just wanted to put it to good use with this thread and maybe find a cause for a possible lack of self-confidence within Js to then develop a cure.
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gosh I need a beer now, all that mambo jumbo talk has made me thirsty