think2much
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- Sep 30, 2009
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I'm having hard time dealing with this. Most people think I'm bit autistic cause I don't fully understand social cues. I find it bit of an insult cause people use social cues to tell you things they don't want to say. which makes me frustrated, I'm always stright forward and honest with people and I expect them to do the same. I get confused if they're telling the truth or giving me a social cues.
example I just made up.
me: wanna go out next friday
her: oh I'm busy (social cues or actully busy)
gets on chat
me: what's up
her: good
me: anything new
her: I'll be back in 5minutes (social cues?)
me: k
I hate dealing with social cues, if I wanted to speak with that person I would just drop contact right away. ignore phone call, never replies to text, dont' even look at the person if I met them in person.. or just stright up tell them.
I just don't know most of time if they're trying to give me a hint or just being honest. I think I was meant to be hermit forever.
EDIT: other example, I'll call you back but never calls me back. what is this?
example I just made up.
me: wanna go out next friday
her: oh I'm busy (social cues or actully busy)
gets on chat
me: what's up
her: good
me: anything new
her: I'll be back in 5minutes (social cues?)
me: k
I hate dealing with social cues, if I wanted to speak with that person I would just drop contact right away. ignore phone call, never replies to text, dont' even look at the person if I met them in person.. or just stright up tell them.
I just don't know most of time if they're trying to give me a hint or just being honest. I think I was meant to be hermit forever.
EDIT: other example, I'll call you back but never calls me back. what is this?