i think juggling a few things is probably more healthy, altho it doesn't really work for me. i expect too much of the dating process, too much attention, too much focus, too much care to be all over the place.
according to the love languages schema, my first and by far strongest is quality time. i don't feel like it is easy for me to really commit to deeply connecting or exploring chemistry when i'm jumping around. it just false feels and unprioritized.
i also find myself withdrawing from others if there is no strong connection (altho as i've matured i've let things breathe a little more, go a little slower, less intense pressure). as in, it is more difficult for me to juggle multiple things bc it has always been one of those situations in which i'd rather be alone than with people i am not connecting with in a meaningful and satisfying way. i have way too strong an inner agenda to enjoy sitting on the patio with other people who are gettin in the way of my private thoughts and not inspiring any desire to connect, play, and converse with.
i think Fe makes me feel more situationally dependent on others. meeting/matching their feelings, being like hyperly self-aware of the interaction that is going on between us. it makes it so that i cannot just enjoy being MUTED and alone with someone else on a totally differnet page than me. like it keeps pulling me out of my world, is distracting, etc. damn left-brained jness. also a source of conflict with various infps that i have had in my life, knowing we both value this space very dearly but them getting annoyed and irritated that i try to push things a bit too much at times, am too uncompromising, am too Fe and j and demanding/directing.
i think Fi is better at weighing the value of things and Ti is better at perceiving the causal conections between things. Fe is more of a context-fiinder, it understands the expressed elements of the event/situation/conversation and focuses on purifying those, testing/tasting those, seeing how thins feel to be in this situation and if it is right and harmonious and intensely meaningful or if it isn't, and then kind of protecting that EXTERNALITY and the possibility for making that, purifying that, communicating that, discovering that again and again and again. the moment when we dissolve is significant to us when it is done right with someone who is capable of meeting us there. Te does shit for you and expresses itself by eliminating that which is unimportant and irrelevant.