I think what worries me more than anything is that my husband could potentially become clergy. His degree is in Biblical studies and he had to drop out of seminary because I couldn't handle being impoverished students anymore. I am a Christian and I enjoy studying the Bible and religion, but church people . . .
My husband wouldn't pressure me, I don't think, but I'd want to be supportive. However, I just don't have a lot of patience for people's nonsense anymore. And I'm pretty bad at all of the SFJ stuff.
What's been pretty crazy for us is that we met at an Evangelical Bible college in 1991, so we were both pretty conservative. Over the years, we both have come to the conclusion that fiscal conservatism is complete BS and in opposition to Christ's teachings, so we don't consider ourselves conservatives anymore. I'm more socially liberal than he is, but we manage to respect each other. For example, I don't put pro-gay marriage stuff on the family van and he doesn't give me crap about paying extra to get pro-gay marriage license plates on the other vehicles, even though he is the sole family breadwinner.
His job interferes with attending religious services for the foreseeable future, but I think he might eventually like to go to church at least if circumstances allow. I don't think I can go to a church that is intolerant of same sex couples, etc more than just to visit once in awhile. Right now, I get roped into going to a conservative church because my brother is a pastor and my mom goes to his church, but even bribing myself with lunch out does not make it tolerable on a regular basis.