Thalassa
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- Joined
- May 3, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ISFP
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- 6w7
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- sx
Yes, why are so many ENFP women so warm and cuddly and attractive, and well hot???
Also, an answer of "Scott, because your an INFP, and NFP's tend to be attracted to other NFP's" does NOT count as an acceptable answer...
Actually I'm rarely attracted to other NFPs. I didn't even think it was common for it to be that way. Are you making this up?
a only slighlty mroe serious question, given how popular ENFP's are, how to do you deal witha ll of the people who want to talk to you, be around you, spend time with you, etc. ENFP's tend to be very open and accepting IMO, and thats gotta put a lot of demand on one's time and social life afterall
The simple answer is to turn your phone off. Duh! I'm not joking, either.
Actually, when I was younger I felt like I had a good balance between my social life and everything else. I think I've always been pretty good at mostly getting along with people - even being "the life of the party" back in the day -when I'm with then, but setting up a certain distance from them otherwise if they aren't people I want to be especially close to. I've had issues with some of my boundaries, but keeping random people from snatching my energy hasn't ever been one of those issues. I know how to throw myself into the middle of things, and then just as promptly withdraw when I see fit. I was talking in another thread about how Fi can do that easier than Fe because we don't feel obligated. I think my ENFJ bff from high school has much more issues with people crawling all over her.