hazelsees
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- Feb 1, 2013
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
Inferiority complex surrounding asserting oneself or asserting ones' dominance over others. The individual extremely dislikes overly aggressive people but cannot voice any opinion concerning aggressive people due to fear of being a new target for others' assertive nature. Fears being criticized for lack of self-assertion, as this is perceived as one's main flaw as an individual, aggressive, domineering nature seen as somewhat evil and patronizing (yet also somewhat perceived as admirable with a twinge of envy). Intolerant of conflict, disliking to take place in any conflict due not because it disturbs the peace but because one cannot take a strong stance against another without ultimately losing somehow. Wants badly to self-assert themselves, but any attempts at doing so ultimately fail, always.
This one is difficult too. Sorry...nothing is easy with me.
I don't dislike aggressive people unless they're trying to sell me something. They are sort of amusing really...I like to sit back and watch (when possible) because they are so different from me...and I try to figure them out.
BUT, maybe when it's more personal and I'm directly involved, I dislike them. When they're trying to force me to do something I don't want to do.
I don't like conflict (but hate to admit that it's sometimes interesting to watch from afar particularly between two aggressive people), but I will speak up if need be.
I like peace. I normally dislike conflict. Part of the problem is I can often see all sides POVs...and try to find ways to compromise. If an aggressive person is pressuring me, I've been known to "agree" to what they want (to get them off my back) and then do what I want once they go away from me.
Wait you needed a number...maybe 3? I just don't know. I hate numbers...they're so solid.
This one is difficult too. Sorry...nothing is easy with me.
I don't dislike aggressive people unless they're trying to sell me something. They are sort of amusing really...I like to sit back and watch (when possible) because they are so different from me...and I try to figure them out.
BUT, maybe when it's more personal and I'm directly involved, I dislike them. When they're trying to force me to do something I don't want to do.
I don't like conflict (but hate to admit that it's sometimes interesting to watch from afar particularly between two aggressive people), but I will speak up if need be.
I like peace. I normally dislike conflict. Part of the problem is I can often see all sides POVs...and try to find ways to compromise. If an aggressive person is pressuring me, I've been known to "agree" to what they want (to get them off my back) and then do what I want once they go away from me.
Wait you needed a number...maybe 3? I just don't know. I hate numbers...they're so solid.