Most autists do not learn to speak.
Autists who learn to speak do not reply to simple questions.
It is not a problem of language.
You have an autist child or parent who can speak.
Does she ask you questions?
If she does, do you answer them?
They say autists broadcast, they do not communicate.
And you do not broadcast?
It's interpersonal connection, and has a lot to do with relating to others, and intuiting intents and feelings. Language doesn't mean much without interpretation.Is communication about language??
Most autists do not learn to speak.
Autists who learn to speak do not reply to simple questions.
It is not a problem of language.
You have an autist child or parent who can speak.
Does she ask you questions?
If she does, do you answer them?
They say autists broadcast, they do not communicate.
And you do not broadcast?
Most autists do not learn to speak.
Autists who learn to speak do not reply to simple questions.
It is not a problem of language.
You have an autist child or parent who can speak.
Does she ask you questions?
If she does, do you answer them?
They say autists broadcast, they do not communicate.
And you do not broadcast?
Hey Wildcat, old friend. Wanted to weigh in as my instinct is telling me this is a particularly important issue to you, spanning beyond the courtyard of TC.
I don't want to reveal too much, so I'll try to speak in code. Hope this makes sense.
Your barriers aren't your fault. Not now. Not then.
Language takes time. To learn and to speak.
Missing the target isn't always a question of aim. Or effort. Love makes our aim firm. So firm sometimes we have a hard time finding alternatives.
Your child becomes you. Words aren't needed. Maturity is experience.
Being a parent means wanting your child to become better. Not better than them, better than you.
Keep fighting the good fight.
Hey Wildcat, old friend. Wanted to weigh in as my instinct is telling me this is a particularly important issue to you, spanning beyond the courtyard of TC.
I don't want to reveal too much, so I'll try to speak in code. Hope this makes sense.
Your barriers aren't your fault. Not now. Not then.
Language takes time. To learn and to speak.
Missing the target isn't always a question of aim. Or effort. Love makes our aim firm. So firm sometimes we have a hard time finding alternatives.
Your child becomes you. Words aren't needed. Maturity is experience.
Being a parent means wanting your child to become better. Not better than them, better than you.
Keep fighting the good fight.
It's interpersonal connection, and has a lot to do with relating to others, and intuiting intents and feelings. Language doesn't mean much without interpretation.
Communication is more than language. For example, on the more extreme end of the spectrum with autism, pointing at an object doesn't mean anything. With extreme autistic people, if you point at something, they will look at your finger and not what you're pointing to, because the connection of intent is not made. These same people also don't know how to point to an object to bring another's attention to it.
Another example in more extreme cases is pronoun reversal. One might say "You are hungry" when they are actually referring to themselves, because other people say 'you'. Or if one person asks "how are you today?" the autistic will say "you are fine" when they actually mean "I am fine"
This is also related to echolalia, where they simply repeat phrases. e.g. "are you thirsty?" will be replied to with the echo "are you thirsty?" rather than seeing it as a question and answering it.
This is not strictly true, it is a spectrum hence the term ASD.
The further you go along the spectrum the more severe the cases are considered (the more life affecting) and the less verbal communication/interaction.
To only consider verbal communication as language/communication is an error imo, think Amanda baggs.
It is not a problem of language.
Is it a problem of communication?
If it is a problem of communication, it does not concern the autist.
It is your problem.
Language and communication are part of it to varying degrees with varying individuals. It's not so black and white. What the majority of nuerotypical people believe to be communication does not cover all communication or for that matter language.
I agree to a point, there is a lot of misconception regarding persons with asd, the majoirty believe if the autistic individual 'can not communicate with me on my terms and in my form of communication then they are not communicating' this of course is total nonsense.
Just because we can not see into someones mind who presents as unable to communicate on societies terms, does not mean that they do not communicate or indeed think on many levels... often levels of great complexity and beauty.
In this society at large loses out through it's own ignorance.
If it is a problem of communication, it does not concern the autist.
It is your problem.
Communication is a two-way street.
The moral of the story: don't let autists operate vehicles - they will drive on the wrong side of the road.A history of an airplane accident. An analogy.
An airplane is about to land. The person who directs the traffic at the airport says to the pilot:
- Turn right.
The pilot turns left. The airplane crashes.
Did the pilot follow the order?
He did.
His 'left' corresponded the 'right' of the director of the traffic.
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lan...-convictions-overturned-sentence-vacated.htmlI chose Cottrell because it is a standard case not only of autism per se, but of the the habitual confrontation with authority.
When I was twelve years old, a policeman came to our house. He said to my parents: Your son is a leader of a gang.
I was repeatedly accused of plagiarism in school.
Then I started to read these autists' histories.
Cottrell was framed.
It seems Cottrell was fluent in non-verbal communication of a particularly anti-social kind.The three-judge panel in February had upheld Cottrell's 2005 convictions on conspiracy and seven counts of arson and the 100-month sentence he was given. But in an unpublished opinion released Tuesday, the panel "amended" its February ruling. The judges said the trial court's exclusion of expert testimony about Cottrell's affliction with Asperger's syndrome denied him an opportunity to demonstrate that he couldn't have had specific intent in aiding and abetting the destruction.
The moral of the story: don't let autists operate vehicles - they will drive on the wrong side of the road.
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lan...-convictions-overturned-sentence-vacated.html
It seems Cottrell was fluent in non-verbal communication of a particularly anti-social kind.
Do you think the bolded claim fair?
I don't think his autism should have been a factor in the ruling at all.
No. It's because you're loco.'I' is the 'you' of the other party.
'Left' is the 'right' of the other party.
'East' is the 'west' of the other party.
The other party does not loci.
The autists do not confuse between I and you, left and right, or east and west.
They know the other party does not loci.
That said, I confess I never learned to drive a car or a boat.
Whenever I wanted to turn to the right, the car or the boat turned to the left.
Is it because I am spatially confused?
No.
I do not. I thought I made that clear...Do you think the bolded does claim fair?
It is not my bolded.
No. It's because you're loco.
j/k
The thing is, wileycat, you know how to samba, you just prefer to do your own wee dance and then complain that other people don't know the steps. That's...your prerogative. But you're just as guilty of whatever "-ism" it is that you're accusing neurotypicals of as they are.
Boring as conventions may be, they are a necessary evil if we are going to make any kind of sense of each other/the world. Sometimes we need arbitrary left/right labels if we are going to communicate meaningfully (or, at all).
If I misunderstand you, now would be a good time for plain speech.
I do not. I thought I made that clear...
That's not my interpretation. "Loco" was a playful pun on your "loci". I don't judge you unfair, just that your complaint seemed unrealistic. Most people cannot communicate as you do or really understand you without a good deal of effort. Whereas you can understand regular speech. Therefore, the onus is on you to communicate clearly, (in order to share your considerable gifts), rather than invent your own rules and demand that others understand them. (I accept that in the case of severe autists, this is not the case.)You do misunderstand me. My bad.
PLAIN SPEECH
I knew you did not think your bolded claims fair. You did make that perfectly clear.
Your interpretation: wildcat is loco and he is not fair.
"Route", "rote" or "routine"?I only wanted to check, to be on the safe side of the road.
I have a high regard for neurotypicals.
And I am not accusing neurotypicals for misunderstanding autists.
What I wanted to say is misunderstanding is a two way street, always.
It is not that only neurotypicals misunderstand autists. Autists also misunderstand neurotypicals.
It is therefore we cannot answer to their route questions at all. We do not engage in route learning.
There are many creative people among the neurotypicals.
Also the neurotypicals who are not so creative, are very much needed in society.
They have a gift of organization and discipline we autists cannot dream of.
This is what I have always said. I have been explicitly fair.
We have a problem in school. That's what caught me in the eye when I read about Cottrell.
The thing is we hardly ever pass the entry examination (= a route examination) to school. We need extreme preparation.
We are so bad the teachers assume an extreme dislike for us in the very beginning should we enter any route examination.. They thing we are disorganized and loco. I have told this before and it seems I have to tell it again. Please read:
When I had passed my graduation exams in a subject x I went to see the Professor.
I was not motivated to see him. The subject x was not my mainline study at all.
However, my relatives pushed me to get the paper.
The Professor said: 'Yes, you have passed the Laudatur exams. It is all-clear but there is one thing. You are not enrolled.
You had no right to study here. We did not notice you never entered the entry examination to the school.
It is highly irregular, but we can arrange it for you to enter the entry examination now.'
I said no.
He destroyed all my papers.
I said no because I could not have passed the entry examination!
He did not know it. Could I have explain it to him?
Of course not.
The route questions are impossible to answer.
I don't know much about him either so I'm not in a position to take sides.Back to Cottrell. I do not know much of him. I know what I read in the Wikipedia.
Hawking was on his side. You are not. Why?
Hawking was in the wrong?
It is not about Cottrell.
That's not my interpretation. "Loco" was a playful pun on your "loci". I don't judge you unfair, just that your complaint seemed unrealistic. Most people cannot communicate as you do or really understand you without a good deal of effort. Whereas you can understand regular speech. Therefore, the onus is on you to communicate clearly, (in order to share your considerable gifts), rather than invent your own rules and demand that others understand them. (I accept that in the case of severe autists, this is not the case.)
"Route", "rote" or "routine"?
Why couldn't you explain that to him? You just explained it to me.
This reminds me of Chris Langan's story as relayed by Malcolm Gladwell's in Outliers..
Gladwell draws some interesting conclusions.
I don't know much about him either so I'm not in a position to take sides.
I just think it was patronising of the federal appeals court to suggest that his autism meant he was incapable of intent. And that it was ironic for you to suggest that he was framed on account of his disability, when, if anything, there was a suggestion that they would have been more lenient if it had been admissible.
If he wasn't involved in criminal damage, of course, it was unfair that he was imprisoned. But it's hardly the first miscarriage of justice in US history, and won't be the last. As you say, it's not really relevant.