Dailtone
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- Nov 9, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
( regarding ESTJ towards ENFPs )
I like them, but I have no idea how they manage to like everyone. I mean, they're really, really nice people (in my experience), but when they're nice to literally EVERYONE, and it's like they're friends with thousands of people, you don't exactly feel special, you know? I like feeling like I'm at least a little bit special, in a friendship. Like I'm valued. And I dunno how much I feel that with ENFPs.
I guess it's just that they're so different from me, you know? I don't relate to them, even though I like them, and appreciate how they balance me out.
My husband used to complain about this to me all the time when we were newly weds ( and I suspect he still feels it on occasions ).
So here's my question : How do you make an an ESTJ feel really special, and valued and loved above others?
(especially since his birthday is coming up soon any ideas for how to make it meaningful to him?)