Sil
This is a test.
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I meant, do you resent others, because you have to do it that way as opposed to coming out strait out.
Are you, calm and collected around people you know, or more direct?
How do you treat guests in your home? Is treating guests well, important to you?
1. Sure, it can irritate me in the moment. It demands extra work on my part to get the desired result. It's like having the option of escalator or stairs but you've got to take the stairs.
2. Those aren't opposites, so I'm not sure I'll answer your question the way you might hope.
Am I calm and collected around people I know?
Ehhh...it depends. I tend to express more Ne with people I know, which can make me appear more energetic at times.
But on the whole, I guess we could round to a yes. I'm not emotionally all over the place when I'm with people I know.
Am I more direct?
Yes. I am more direct with people I know because I know what they can handle.
I tend to be more polite around strangers because I don't know the limits I'm dealing with.
3. I don't have people over to my place. I'm a really bad host, so I avoid that issue. I'm not even kidding on this. Last person I had over to my place was probably five years ago.
If I'm in a situation where I had guests, I would treat them to the best of my ability. I don't really see a reason not to.