Paisley
Strolling Through The Shire
- Joined
- Jan 14, 2009
- Messages
- 498
- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 5w4
I'm saying so because the INFJs I've known - who've both had highly developed 'Thinking' to go with their 'F' preference - have a lot of patience with people, even ones they find 'stupid'. Their idealist nature makes them inclusive and seeking to find the good points of 'stupid' people. To an extent, anyway.
NFs aren't generally motivated just by the idea that they can 'impress' someone, nor do they tend to suddenly write people off.
You sound like a classic INT to me.
Haha, that's what's confusing you. I DO have patience for stupid people, only nice stupid people not arrogantly stupid people as that's more in the form of non confrontationalism, than never talking to them. I "prefer" to associate with like minded people that follow my ideals, then "prefering" all people. Friendships with me, are only found among a select few, true friendships at least. More people know of me, than know me. I'm very easy going around people who I share commonalities with, and I naturally practice hospitality, and I'm warm and reassuring until people turn their brains off, and start talking out of their ass. My F is only 3% above T, and both wage war against each other for dominance, so that may be where the confusion lies.