runvardh
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That's kinda evil of you kitty.
How is that?
That's kinda evil of you kitty.
That's kinda evil of you kitty.
You know... I'm STILL wishing someone would seduce me. How long ago was it that this thread was first going? I guess I really should have invested in the T-shirt...
Nothing wrong with him wanting to be Mad Cat to a very special Dr. Claw.
Sexually, the INTJ enjoys thinking about intimacy, and about ways to perfect it. In positive relationships, their creativity and intensity shine through in this arena. In more negative relationships, they might enjoy thinking about sex more than actually doing it. They're likely to approach intimacy from a theoretical, creative perspective, rather than as an opportunity to express love and affection.
To clarify...
I think you guys give off an asexual vibe, that doesn't mean that you are actually asexual.
You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.
Am I wrong?
You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.
To clarify...
I think you guys give off an asexual vibe, that doesn't mean that you are actually asexual.
You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.
Am I wrong?
You're not wrong about how we appear. But we're like one of those awesome "secret" bars that has a nondescript door with no sign outside. You have to work a little to find it, but it's worth it.
Just show them how much smarter you are than they are and don't be cowed by their wall of stony impassivity.Show them your tits
Be yourself. Either we'll want you or we won't. You really don't have a lot to do with the process.
If you don't possess characteristics we want (desired number of children =/= mine, religious orientation too dissimilar, desired living location, etc), you don't have a chance. Don't bother to try. (One assumes you ARE talking about a relationship, and not physical contact?)
If you do, you will see us start to dissect you. At a certain point, we will decide we want you or don't.
Once we HAVE decided we want you, we are then vulnerable. There's no need to seduce at that point; you've already got us and don't need to do anything else. Proceed to relate (i.e. the present participle of 'to have a relationship').
See, that's the nice part about you guys: one doesn't have to play poker to know whether they win the pot or not, it's just a simple coin toss. I wonder then how to make it easy enough for an INTJ to see those, starting from showing up on the radar to begin with.