Metamorphosis
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Why does Hitler look like Joe Dirt?
They are one and the same.
Why does Hitler look like Joe Dirt?
:steam: I think people sometimes find me intimidating. I think most people can feel when you are not open to flatery and such. It can be very upsetting to some when they can not either gain access to me or impress me with antics, staus or small talk. It appearsto be some game they want me to play along with and I am not willing. This in turn makes them label me as cold or intimidating.
In my experience with my one good INTJ friend I think he initially seems really stand-offish and aloof because he hardly ever lets people see him for who he is. He keeps a lot to himself and is not big on self-disclosure...it literally took years for him to talk about himself on a personal level. Also, he is terrible at initiating and maintaining communication with people. It seems he could go months without speaking to people (even his best friends) and that doesn't bother him at all. Is it really that hard to pick up the phone every once in awhile and simply say, "Hey, how are ya?" I think just for those 2 reasons alone INTJ's are hard to get to know.
Also, there really is something about the general facial expression that INTJ's have. My friend almost always has a serious look on his face, and his eyes are very piercing...I think one article I read on INTJ's said something like, "You feel as if they can see right through you" and I'd say that can be really accurate at times. Although, when he is really happy you can see a visible joy in his eyes...and goodness gracious, is it ever attractive
They're usually thinking something like "that's a pile of crap you're talking, I so want to tell you, but sadly I don't have the social or communication skills to get away with it, all that'll happen is I'll look like an asshole and everyone will rally round you, damn, I wish I had your ability to make people like you!"
It's not like writing people off and buring bodies are similar. I can't believe the idea of writing someone off is that foreign to some that it would appear so.
I don't think, I wish I had your ability to make people like me. I think damn, I wish people weren't so ignorant, small-minded, petty, and driven to judge things at a superficial level.
I think this kind of behaviour may have significantly slowed human evolution.
It's the dead NT eyes.
What is it about us that causes people to think that we are stand-offish, aloof, intimidating, etc.?
I use to think that it was my dry humor and sarcasm, but I've had waitresses stop in their tracks on the way to the table and then say something to the extent of, "Why are you looking at me like you hate me," when all I did was glance in their direction. This hasn't been an issue in awhile really, but I still find it interesting.
Ummm out of curiosity what do you usually look like? Those are pretty extreme responses...I know I dont count because im INTP but I have on two seperate occassions made a woman scream in terror from looking at me.
The first time it happened she fell over and screamed "OH MY GOD HE WANTS TO KILL ME"(i wish I was joking) she apologized afterwords.
The second time it was a chick who was talking to a freind of mine, she ran off and from what my freind gathered aparently I had been stalking her for the last 2 years(I think she might of been a little inbalanced )