"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray
Have you considered ESTJ with a well-developed tertiary Ne?
From our Vent convo, and the rationalizations of your arguments, they're more Te than Ti. I don't really get Ti from you.
However, I do see some Ne.
What's Ne and Te? --> ESTJ (ENFP is out because I don't see too much Fi from you, you let things roll off your back pretty easily with Vent users, I dunno about your interactions IRL though....however, I do remember a few times you did vent about your personal issues, with family members, and how much they irk you...but that can be anyone, not really indicative of Fi preference in general)
I'd say ENTJ. The rebellious thing you've got going is pretty common for ENTJ females who don't really fit into the norms of society.
Also, your life problems are pretty much ENTJish. At least the way you go about dealing with them. I recognize myself in it a lot.
You're not mellow enough for an ENTP. You do the steamroller thing, too. ExxPs are mostly obnoxious.
In fact... I remember talking to you on a few occasions where you commented your real world surroundings in a way that no perceiver ever would.
Little things ticking you off very J-style.
I'd say you've got a well-developed but learned Se that comes across when you're trying to fit in. Talking to you one on one is a whole different matter.
Your brain is weird, but awesomely so.
I understand people who would have a hard time typing you, because you are often angry, you try to fit in more than you actually need to and thus plays different roles whereas you're quite different the few times i've been anywhere near under your skin.
You give me about a similar intuitive vibe as Kangirl, somehow.
I think it points to ENTJ, if there even is such a thing as type.
Your behavior pattern is kind of consistent with it... Especially when you seem like you're being "yourself".
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