What type am I really? An ENTJ wondering and YES seeking HELP

[sofiannam]

At first I thought I was an ENTJ. The test showed that. The traits were quite the same with the ones that I possess. But because of my score of Extrovert-Introvert being really close (60-40), I thought why shouldn't I look INTJ too? After hours of research I found out that it's very likely that I'm an INTJ afterall. But am I really an INTJ? I don't know that's why I'm asking for your help!

So here are few facts about me:
I like researching, acquiring knowledge, being always right and reasonable, don't like taking risks, I'm very curious and cautious, I'm an intelligent person, first in my class, I have won some awards at competitions for Mathematics etc, I'm a Grammar Nazi (when it comes to my mother tongue, so I'm so sorry for the loads of mistakes that you will see in this text), and I get incredibly annoyed when people make mistakes, I have no patience when it comes to making mistakes, I'm anxious and I'm sure I'm a perfectionist too ...

As for Introvert-Extrovert I really don't know. I'm into singing ansd acting so I have been in front of an audience multiple times and although before I get to the stage I'm a little bit anxious as soon as I'm up there I forget everything and enjoy it at its most! Maybe I'm an Ambivert? I don't know

But here is the problem:

• I'm incredibly sensitive to criticism
• I can't understand why people hurt other people's feelings when I'm trying my best not to
• I hate rudeness and sometimes I think I was born at the wrong century (I'm into Victorian Era and if you have seen the trilogy of Empress Sissi are some of my favorite movies)
• I'm a very emotional person. I cry when listening to music, when watching movies, when I'm upset, angry or disappointed. When someone is unfair to me it's a matter of a few seconds to tear up. However, when others are crying I literally have no idea what to do and how to comfort them. I'm just not that good at it, however I feel bad for them.
• I'm incredibly sensitive but don't show it to others so I appear very cold hearted, distant and rough.
• I'm into all kinds of art. Music (I'm taking vocal lessons and have performed multiple times to an audience, I play the guitar, the piano), I love acting and dancing and enjoy drawing too.

(I'm 100% sure that I'm Turbulent and not Assertive)

So let me give you an example of my sensitivity. Last night I was watching a play performed by my old High School Theatre Club (last year was the last time I participated too) "Le Bourgeois gentilhomme" (The Middle Class Gentleman) where the protagonist was played by a 13 year old boy who I always thought has a great talent at playing the piano and he's a very kind person. But little did I know that he also has a huge talent in acting too. To cut a long story short, I found myself tearing up because of my surprise and happiness that this boy is such a talented person. I was astonished. Maybe I was being a little nostalgic...

So this is my last days in school, I'm a senior this year in two months I'm taking my final exams (I live in Greece where only a high enough score can get you into the University of your choice), I'm very anxious about what is coming and nostalgic for the years that have passed.

Can you help me decide which is my mbti personality type? If you need more information, please don't hesitate to ask me. All thoughts are welcome!

 

[Agent Washington]

... u ok bud

 

[sofiannam]

... u ok bud

Hello! Yes, I'm great! I had a problem posting anything in here, so I just wrote something and posted it. But now that it's posted I edited it and voila!!! Sorry you had to see the previous one!
So now if you want you can help me find my mbti personality type!

 

[Agent Washington]

Hello! Yes, I'm great! I had a problem posting anything in here, so I just wrote something and posted it. But now that it's posted I edited it and voila!!! Sorry you had to see the previous one!
So now if you want you can help me find my mbti personality type!

Haha ok

Well this is going to be how I do the thing:
If You’re Confused About Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type, Read This: An Intro To Cognitive Functions | Thought Catalog

Well, I think XXTJ is right,because how you write the emotions denote Te-Fi. Every single type feels deeply, it's just a matter of preference. Te-Fi usually manifests like this: Introverted Feeling - (Fe)

So the question now, between ENTJ and INTJ is whether or not you're a Te-Ni or Ni-Te.

Read through Introverted iNtuiting - (Ni)
and
Extraverted Thinking (Te)
To see which one you tend to do the most.

And then you have it!

 

[sofiannam]

Haha ok

Well this is going to be how I do the thing:
If You’re Confused About Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type, Read This: An Intro To Cognitive Functions | Thought Catalog

Well, I think XXTJ is right,because how you write the emotions denote Te-Fi. Every single type feels deeply, it's just a matter of preference. Te-Fi usually manifests like this: Introverted Feeling - (Fe)

So the question now, between ENTJ and INTJ is whether or not you're a Te-Ni or Ni-Te.

Read through Introverted iNtuiting - (Ni)
and
Extraverted Thinking (Te)
To see which one you tend to do the most.

And then you have it!

Thank you very much for the material that you supplied me! Time for some reasearch!

 

[sofiannam]

Honestly, to me all the points point to depression more than a certain type. Maaaaaybe some enneagram 6 being at play somewhere.

I have thought about depression too, but nahhh. Quite perfect family background and happy many times. More like moody. I also have a melancholic temperament. I'm most likely Enneagram 4w3 but I scored Enneagram 6 high too. Also, I'm a teenager turning 18 in less than a month so maybe that's what this is all about... Puberty. And finally, I have an incline to arts, maybe that's making more sensitive?

 

[sofiannam]

I was seeing enneagram 4w5, so it's fine. Maybe gut 1w9 or 9w1?
I think it's better if you answer a questionnaire so we can get an insight on how you reason. It's hard to see Te-Ni from that post (I was thinking Si-Ne due to how you're conflict averse and melanchonic), so I definitely need more.

Or 1w2... 'agentwashington' saw Te-Ni I read a little bit about them and I have to say I agree with what it says.
Oh, and as regards conflict averse I have been quite the opposite all my life... I somewhat enjoy arguing or actually having deep and intense intellectual conversations, it's almost like "I make it happen".

If I keep describing myself like this I may turn out to be a person who needs medical care...