Litsnob
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I've been in this over-thinking stage too. It took me a long time to work out whether I was INFJ or INTJ because I can do/use functions that are not in my preference stack and some of them I can use quite well. It wasn't until the light clicked on and I understood that I needed to sort out what I prefer to do over what I can do. I figured this out in part by realising that I was getting really irritated because I'd been taught to value harmony over facts or truth and taught that it was right to value it higher. So I was struggling with being told even indirectly, that my preference, my behaviour and my values were wrong. Perhaps you can identify some type of struggle or frustration like that for yourself. Or perhaps not and time will tell.[MENTION=27129]Litsnob[/MENTION]
INTP from that one. But its answers are really stereotypical. Plus I think the problem with my functions is the order, not Ti vs Fi. Right now Si-Ti and Ti-Si could both work.
If you are Si-Ti you would be ISFJ and more likely not to be bothered by all of this because you just want a peaceful existence without so much thinking and fussing. If you are Ti-Si you would be INTP and the way and the contents of your thinking still signals INTP to me.
In short: See if you can sort out what you prefer from what you can do. Good luck.