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ESFJ or no?
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DreamBeliever
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How does that differ then from se inferior under stress? I'm curious, because an infj friend of mine described himself as going out to clubs a lot & not taking his school work seriously when he was really stressed out & depressed during his freshman year. He's 3 years older than me, so he's graduated now. Anyway, it's funny, because coincidently, since I guess I hadn't taken away the point of his story when he told me it a year before or learned from it, my sophomore year I basically fell into a pattern similar to that myself.
Te ni under stress is that you have a mission and you have a future that you do not want to see or you have problems. You believe the best to have help OS be nice and they could help you or so do you believe. Your reasoning seem pretty calculated
Woth se inferior they are going to parties but it is be themselves it males them feel alive makes them feel strong and a lot of ni dome deep down wants to make their fate.
Cognitive functions to an extent does not deal with actions of a person but their reasons as well
Cognitive functions to an extent does not deal with actions of a person but their reasons as well
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A future I don't want to see sounds accurate, but I wouldn't use the word calculated. It feels anything but that when it's happening.
Which typically comes first for you: work, or play?
Which describes you better: carefree, or intense?
Which best describes your political beliefs: liberal, centrist, or conservative?
Does it bother you when people are late?
Which do you put more weight in: science, or faith?
Which describes you better: more warm-hearted, or cool-headed?
As a personality, are you more passive, active, or balanced?
Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Do you like dogs? Would you consider owning a dog as a pet?
How much would you enjoy hosting a big, crazy party?
Are Goth chicks more sexy, or more lame?
How do you feel about kids (precious, okay, revolting, indifferent to them)?
Could you date someone who was really quiet?
Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value: logical/mathematical, social/interpersonal, or visual/spatial/artistic?
How shy would you say you are?
When deciding what is right and wrong are you more emotional, logical, religious, or something else?
Outside of work and school, how inclined are you to investigate something that interests you?
When it comes to right and wrong, which of the following has the greatest impact on your belief system: religion, family/friends, laws, or self interest?
Which word describes you better: private or social?
When planning future activities with your significant other(s), do you generally like to take the lead?
Is the left or right hemisphere of your brain dominant?
Do you typically speak and write in a clear, precise manner?
How often do you try new things (food, activities, music, whatever)?
Do you mind getting really dirty working/playing outside?
When facing a complicated situation, can you easily put yourself in another person's shoes and consequently see things from his or her point of view?
Do you care about other people's suffering?
Are you annoyed by people who are super logical?
Are you almost always on time?
Which do you cause more of: order, or chaos?
Would speaking in front of a large group make you nervous?
How frequently do you drink alcohol?
Are you careful with your money?
Which of the following has the biggest influence on your behavior: reason/observation/empiricism/trial-and-error, tradition/faith/upbringing/heritage, or emotion/intuition/instinct?
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?
If you had to choose one, which would you rather have: great sex, great friends, great love, or great ideas?
Which is worse: being too much of a dreamer, or too cynical?
What size party would you prefer to attend: a few close friends, 5 - 20 people, 20 - 100 people, or more than 100 people?
How do you feel about germs: obsessed (you bleach anything you can't trust), careful (you wash my hands and cover your sneezes), polite (you always wash up when someone's watching), or unconcerned (you don't actively lick doorknobs)?
How high is your self confidence: very high, higher than average, average, or below average?
How much do you procrastinate?
If someone asked what "wherefore" in the line “Wherefore art thou Romeo?†meant, what would you respond with: why, where, how, or who cares / wtf?
In a conversation are you usually listening or waiting to speak?
Do you ever feel socially awkward?
Do you space out or daydream a lot?
How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated?
Do you like to be the center of attention?
Are you attracted to dangerous situations?
Are you likely to make long, friendly conversation with strangers?
Could you date someone who was really messy?
Do you usually blurt things out, or do you think carefully before speaking?
Which of the following characters best represents your personality: Garfield (apathetic and sarcastic), Bugs Bunny (creative & versatile), Batman (quiet problem-solver), or Mickey Mouse (cheery & energetic)?
If a photographer approaches you on the street and asks to take your picture, do you pose for them or politely refuse?
If you were going away for two weeks, when would you start packing: at least 2 days before, the day before, the same day, or not at all?
Do you pick up after yourself (always, when you have the time, no, or someone else does it)?
Would you be willing to adopt a child?
Do you enjoy finding out what makes things work the way they do?
How often are you open with your feelings?
Do you prefer your social plans settled and decided, or tentative?
Are you more cheerful (have a positive outlook), meh (have ups and downs), or annoyed ("the world sucks")?
How open are you to trying new things in bed: very (will try anything once), open (but not too crazy), hesitant, or not at all?
Do you often have a hard time thinking of things to talk about?
Do you believe reason is more important than emotions in solving problems?
In which climate zone would you prefer to live: tropical (love the heat), mediterranean (warm, but not too hot), temperate (everything in moderation), subarctic (love the cold and snow)?
Could you date someone who needs a great deal of alone time?
Do you keep a budget (of your finances)?
Are you an intellectual (loves learning for its own sake)? Do you find learning boring?
Are you more talented, or hardworking?
Can you name five living poets and the title of one book by each? Poets, but not titles? Five Poets, even if dead?
Which of the following if your greatest motivation in life thus far: love, wealth, expression, or knowledge?
Do you like wild parties?
Would you rather win a Nobel Prize, a Grammy/Oscar/Tony/Emmy, a Super Bowl (or other sports championship), or the lottery?
If your significant other put on a slow song and asked you to dance, would think it was romantic, corny, or not your kinda thing?
Does silence make you uncomfortable?
If a government were brutally oppressing you, would you organize a peaceful resistance, join the oppressive government, escape to a benign power, or break out the .50 sniper rounds?
How messy are you?
How often do you use Facebook?
Which describes you better: carefree, or intense?
Which best describes your political beliefs: liberal, centrist, or conservative?
Does it bother you when people are late?
Which do you put more weight in: science, or faith?
Which describes you better: more warm-hearted, or cool-headed?
As a personality, are you more passive, active, or balanced?
Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Do you like dogs? Would you consider owning a dog as a pet?
How much would you enjoy hosting a big, crazy party?
Are Goth chicks more sexy, or more lame?
How do you feel about kids (precious, okay, revolting, indifferent to them)?
Could you date someone who was really quiet?
Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value: logical/mathematical, social/interpersonal, or visual/spatial/artistic?
How shy would you say you are?
When deciding what is right and wrong are you more emotional, logical, religious, or something else?
Outside of work and school, how inclined are you to investigate something that interests you?
When it comes to right and wrong, which of the following has the greatest impact on your belief system: religion, family/friends, laws, or self interest?
Which word describes you better: private or social?
When planning future activities with your significant other(s), do you generally like to take the lead?
Is the left or right hemisphere of your brain dominant?
Do you typically speak and write in a clear, precise manner?
How often do you try new things (food, activities, music, whatever)?
Do you mind getting really dirty working/playing outside?
When facing a complicated situation, can you easily put yourself in another person's shoes and consequently see things from his or her point of view?
Do you care about other people's suffering?
Are you annoyed by people who are super logical?
Are you almost always on time?
Which do you cause more of: order, or chaos?
Would speaking in front of a large group make you nervous?
How frequently do you drink alcohol?
Are you careful with your money?
Which of the following has the biggest influence on your behavior: reason/observation/empiricism/trial-and-error, tradition/faith/upbringing/heritage, or emotion/intuition/instinct?
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?
If you had to choose one, which would you rather have: great sex, great friends, great love, or great ideas?
Which is worse: being too much of a dreamer, or too cynical?
What size party would you prefer to attend: a few close friends, 5 - 20 people, 20 - 100 people, or more than 100 people?
How do you feel about germs: obsessed (you bleach anything you can't trust), careful (you wash my hands and cover your sneezes), polite (you always wash up when someone's watching), or unconcerned (you don't actively lick doorknobs)?
How high is your self confidence: very high, higher than average, average, or below average?
How much do you procrastinate?
If someone asked what "wherefore" in the line “Wherefore art thou Romeo?†meant, what would you respond with: why, where, how, or who cares / wtf?
In a conversation are you usually listening or waiting to speak?
Do you ever feel socially awkward?
Do you space out or daydream a lot?
How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated?
Do you like to be the center of attention?
Are you attracted to dangerous situations?
Are you likely to make long, friendly conversation with strangers?
Could you date someone who was really messy?
Do you usually blurt things out, or do you think carefully before speaking?
Which of the following characters best represents your personality: Garfield (apathetic and sarcastic), Bugs Bunny (creative & versatile), Batman (quiet problem-solver), or Mickey Mouse (cheery & energetic)?
If a photographer approaches you on the street and asks to take your picture, do you pose for them or politely refuse?
If you were going away for two weeks, when would you start packing: at least 2 days before, the day before, the same day, or not at all?
Do you pick up after yourself (always, when you have the time, no, or someone else does it)?
Would you be willing to adopt a child?
Do you enjoy finding out what makes things work the way they do?
How often are you open with your feelings?
Do you prefer your social plans settled and decided, or tentative?
Are you more cheerful (have a positive outlook), meh (have ups and downs), or annoyed ("the world sucks")?
How open are you to trying new things in bed: very (will try anything once), open (but not too crazy), hesitant, or not at all?
Do you often have a hard time thinking of things to talk about?
Do you believe reason is more important than emotions in solving problems?
In which climate zone would you prefer to live: tropical (love the heat), mediterranean (warm, but not too hot), temperate (everything in moderation), subarctic (love the cold and snow)?
Could you date someone who needs a great deal of alone time?
Do you keep a budget (of your finances)?
Are you an intellectual (loves learning for its own sake)? Do you find learning boring?
Are you more talented, or hardworking?
Can you name five living poets and the title of one book by each? Poets, but not titles? Five Poets, even if dead?
Which of the following if your greatest motivation in life thus far: love, wealth, expression, or knowledge?
Do you like wild parties?
Would you rather win a Nobel Prize, a Grammy/Oscar/Tony/Emmy, a Super Bowl (or other sports championship), or the lottery?
If your significant other put on a slow song and asked you to dance, would think it was romantic, corny, or not your kinda thing?
Does silence make you uncomfortable?
If a government were brutally oppressing you, would you organize a peaceful resistance, join the oppressive government, escape to a benign power, or break out the .50 sniper rounds?
How messy are you?
How often do you use Facebook?
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& I believe you are an A-class moron. & Damn! You change types more than me.
At least I have an idea of my type, you are all over the place, you have no direction in your type and ironically, when someone says that you are a tj, you dismiss it even though you see their reasonings, if any thing you are expected with not so great fi
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Because Fi would know themselves better than I do? I am bad at being objective. I sometimes wish I could see myself from other people's point of view. & You seem to be all over the place, also.
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Going from isfj to enfj to estp to istj to infj or whatever types you've been through. There's been quite a few. Umm.. if you're an enfj, then why do you have infj listed?
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You can do whatever you want anywhere. You just might have consequences to pay for it. Are you really asking for my opinion on you? No, no. I won't go there.
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I've just read questionaire and I think your current typing fits better.
My guess is xxFP. Some parts of what you wrote I can relate to and it probably influenced my opinion, but I don't think it's necesarrily a bad thing.
I think that ESFP, enneagram 2, sp last is most likely.
My guess is xxFP. Some parts of what you wrote I can relate to and it probably influenced my opinion, but I don't think it's necesarrily a bad thing.
I think that ESFP, enneagram 2, sp last is most likely.
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Hi DreamBeliever!
At first I must say that I don't know enough about mbti or the functions so I'd be comfortable to type anyone. I've read your topic a few times and been hesitating to write but I must say that I'm getting a feeling that you and I share some functions, Fi at least I think.
This is purely a vibe and maybe I'm mirroring you too much to a version of younger and more intense version of me but I'd say that this ESFPish impression that is coming out from your answers isn't really your core personality. I'm saying IxFP, but as I said, this is purely personal view, not an objective analysis.
At first I must say that I don't know enough about mbti or the functions so I'd be comfortable to type anyone. I've read your topic a few times and been hesitating to write but I must say that I'm getting a feeling that you and I share some functions, Fi at least I think.
This is purely a vibe and maybe I'm mirroring you too much to a version of younger and more intense version of me but I'd say that this ESFPish impression that is coming out from your answers isn't really your core personality. I'm saying IxFP, but as I said, this is purely personal view, not an objective analysis.
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Yo DB, I can relate to your dancing about types and stuff. Anyway, I'm sure you'll figure it out, type can't cover 100% of your personality, so stop trying so hard. Accept the type that fits best even if it isn't a 100% perfect fit. If you're going through weird times and trying to figure out who you are, just step away and live your life for a while, then come back to it if you still feel the need to.
