Hi everyone, help me to find out my type, thank you! ps. I'm sorry for my english, I'm Italian.
- What is beauty? What is love?
I personally believe that beauty often coincides with spontaneity and truth, so I think that there can be beauty even in weaknesses. Love is feeling connection, feeling like you've always known that person and wanting to take care of them
-What are your most important values?
I give a lot of importance to my values, especially to honesty, loyalty and kindness
- What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I like to talk about psychology, about how I feel, I like to try to discover things and find answers
-Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body
I'm not very interested on my body, I know I should start to eat healthy and do exercises, but unfortunatly I'm a very lazy person and it's really hard for me to be dedicated to that
-What do you think of daily chores?
I really hate daily chores, I'm very disorganized and I usually do things at the last moment
-8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
Films: Amélie, Girls interrupted, The theory of everything, Million dollar baby
Books: Wild, And then there were none (I don't read a lot)
-What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
I'm very sensible and I can cry for a song, a film, an emotional story, happiness, kindness, critics and self critisism... I smile for generous people,friends
- Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
I often feel disconnected from people, I'm not very empathic and I'm always scared of being refused / not accepted. I feel a sense of belonging when I know that I can express myself without being judge
-What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
weaknesses: too emotional, too shy, anxious, I can appear distant and cold
What I dislike: Being afraid of things, of what people may think of me, not being able to react, being to emotional and shy, being too much self critical and not very positive.
-What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
Strenghts: sweetness, loyalty
What I like: sensitivity, I don't lie to myself
-In what areas of your life would you like help?
I need someone who remember me my strenghts and helps me to be more confident
-Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I'm very self critical, and I can get really angry and sad that I just want to stay home and not doing anything
-A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
It depends on the topic, I feel like everyone should defend what they think, but at the same time I can get mad, especially if we discuss about rights
-How do you behave around strangers?
I'm usually very shy and I find difficult even to talk and say what I think, especially in groups. I'm diffident so I need to wath people and listen to them and try to understand who they are.