fetus
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Hey guys! 
So, I know for sure that I'm a 4w3. I know that sp is definitely last in my stacking. I just can't figure out if I'm so-dominant or sx-dominant.
Here's some information that has confused me for each.
Social
-I'm extremely conscious about what others think of me. If I think somebody hates me, I'll go out of my way to try to win them over--I'm just very sensitive.
-I try to make myself appealing to others. Sometimes this conflicts with my need to stay true to myself, and it causes me great distress.
-I have a deep need to belong in a group, and for belonging in general.
-I enjoy being able to express who I am to the world, so I enjoy things like speaking publicly about things that matter to me.
-I strongly desire inspiring people, both as individuals and as a whole.
-I want to be known for my uniqueness and compassion.
Sexual
-Since childhood, I have become so attached to one person that I think about them constantly, ruminating on every connection we've ever had, and even imagined connections.
-In the past, I have overwhelmed these people by leaning too much on them, being very emotionally naked, and overall displaying a great intensity of feelings. One friend described me as "whirlwind of volatility."
-I become obsessed or addicted easily.
-I seek few and deep relationships over very many.
So, I know for sure that I'm a 4w3. I know that sp is definitely last in my stacking. I just can't figure out if I'm so-dominant or sx-dominant. Here's some information that has confused me for each.
Social
-I'm extremely conscious about what others think of me. If I think somebody hates me, I'll go out of my way to try to win them over--I'm just very sensitive.
-I try to make myself appealing to others. Sometimes this conflicts with my need to stay true to myself, and it causes me great distress.
-I have a deep need to belong in a group, and for belonging in general.
-I enjoy being able to express who I am to the world, so I enjoy things like speaking publicly about things that matter to me.
-I strongly desire inspiring people, both as individuals and as a whole.
-I want to be known for my uniqueness and compassion.
Sexual
-Since childhood, I have become so attached to one person that I think about them constantly, ruminating on every connection we've ever had, and even imagined connections.
-In the past, I have overwhelmed these people by leaning too much on them, being very emotionally naked, and overall displaying a great intensity of feelings. One friend described me as "whirlwind of volatility."
-I become obsessed or addicted easily.
-I seek few and deep relationships over very many.
