OH! Just had another thought to help you with Ne vs. Se... Have you always felt a little different from most people? Like just a vibe you picked up on? Then you're probably iNtuitive. I think a lot of people get confused about N or S because many iNtuitives "blend" to fit in. In other words, many iNtuitives try to be Sensors to make it through the world because the world is 75% Sensors.
My advice if you're doing this--DON'T!!! You will lose a lot of yourself doing that. I did it for years growing up because most of my family have S preference and I didn't know why I felt different. In the past five years I have finally started to come into my own. x