Hi, thank you for your time! I have taken the free mbti tests multiple times but I am still unsure of my mbti type. I usually score a 2w4 on enneagram and according to people I know, I am exceedingly generous. My dilemma begins with a family member. My ENFJ family member is a certified typologist and has typed me as an ESFP while refusing to budge. I have also noted that her ENFJ energy makes me act different, I am way more social and funny around her. I am well versed in cognitive functions and in no way do I feel Se dominant. I am constantly in my head and miss almost ever thing around me, also, I have incredible bursts of Se once in a long time which leaves me shaking. Is that not a sign of an inferior function? After much research I concluded I must be an INFJ(not even close to ESFP) but knowing what my family member says leaves me doubting. The tests also do not help because I found out all the trends and know which function each question is asking about. Since I like being right just like everyone else, I can make the answer what I want it to be. Here is a detached analysis. Also, my IQ is above 130 I think.
Reasons for maybe ESFP: Often act on physical urges to do something random, can remember events with glimpses of pictures, very generous, pretty good with my hands, great style, I can be very loud in certain situations,knowledge of food, I love outdoors, and desire for freedom.
Reasons for maybe INFJ: I am laid back and really kind at heart but come off as serious, I see hidden motivations immediately, I spot fake people easily, I am good at manipulating, I adjust myself to each situation, I often need alone time, I delve into subjects with an almost Ti like drive and don't stop till I have total knowledge, I believe conspiracy theories way to easily haha, I have never fit in even though I have great social skills, I kind of function like a loner but I still have many surface level friends, very few deep true friends, talk about all manners of philosophy for hours, and lastly I have incredible willpower, discipline, and work ethic but everything I do must have great meaning behind it.
With all this information, what would you say I am? ESFP, INFJ, or otherwise? Thank you for your time!