Going to a little cafè, doing some shopping, playing basketball & going on the swings at the park, going to the beach, & going to an outdoor concert all in one day.
*Sounds like it could refer to some Si because of how it goes back to more of a sentimental value of all those things. Coffee is a ritual for many, shopping is a way to explore to detail, basketball is a sport that many can join in, swings is things for children and adults with Si love the feeling going back, outdoor concert is kind of neutral unless it were to be some favorite genre you used to listen to as a kid.
I grew up mostly with my grandparents, so sometimes I really wish I had more time to do stuff with my parents. I was born in '95 but sometimes I wish I was born in '85 because I love 90s culture so much, does that count?
*Sounds much like Si to reminisce the past like that.
It's really embarrassing when I call people by the wrong name. I feel like I should just crawl into a cave. lol I feel like such a moron.
^ To remember/list that particular event is how much you value memory and how you hold dear to it.
Playing at the park with my family as a kid, playing board games with my family as a kid, & all the little moments/conversations with my 2 best friends.
*family values and friends memories Fe/Si connection
This huge teddy bare that I've had since I was around 6.
^ need I say more?
To have the two functions as Fe/Si really all is left is ESFJ the FeSiNeTi.
We only wanted to type you. Don't worry, I remember when I was typed before lol. I wasn't happy either.
SJ's can be rebellious too.
Everybody's different.
For one, no Thinker would have your avatar
I must admit, I took it from Dr. Mike's NF geeks page. Someone posted it, & I thought it was cool.
).I find this to be quite funny. It's amazing that you have doubts about your feeling preference. Here are a couple of examples of it:
- You chose a college because you liked the tour guide. To me that sounds crazy! (Not that I think you're crazy
- You chose to save a teddy bear after your house catches fire.
If you still have doubts, then look over some of your responses to the questions. There is a lot of dominant or auxilliary Fe in many of the responses, which would make you a feeler.
My impression is that you are not all that aware of your feelings. Here's an idea, take a look back at the instances when you've had troubles with authority or when you've had conflict with someone in general. You probably think that your actions at the time were based on rational or objective thought, but if you look at it a bit closely you might just find out that it was your feelings that decided your actions.
It seems that the difficulty you're having in pinning down your personality type has to do with the stereotype of SJ's being traditional and accepting authority, which obviously isn't something that you can relate to. I think it's quite possible that when Kiersey wrote his book, that SJ's were mostly accepting of authority and traditional. But society has changed quite a bit since then, there are many more acceptable views and choices available these days, so that stereotype may be a bit outdated now.
I suggest taking a look in the SJ section of the forums for threads that talk about being traditional or accepting authority. You could also start your own thread and get the perspective of other SJs on your experiences with regards to accepting authority. From what I read in one thread it seems that there are SJs who are tradionalists and accept authority and then there are those who don't fit in that category. Hopefully that will help you settle on a personality type.
