Hello. So I usually get ExFx results with very mild Extraversion (18%). I enjoy my self-time, but after having dinner with friends I feel very nice. I am definitely a feeler vs a thinker lol. I am affectionate, but due to high school abuse I learned not to show my feelings and became shy. I always catch myself either dreaming about the future or the past, I am not focused on the present. Do you think I am the ENFP Inspirer type? Because that is what I get most often. I did this test: http://www.16personalities.com Here are my results (I did it for a second time and still got ENFP):
- Mind - Extraverted 15%
- Energy - Intuitive 57%
- Nature - Feeling 68%
- Tactics - Prospecting 41%
- Identity - Turbulent 62%
But here I get an ISFJ: http://similarminds.com/cgi-bin/cog_jung.pl
I've always been a dreamer but a a kid I preferred playing with friends outside (I'm more of an outdoor person) than staying at home and read. I've always lived with people around me and I definitely prefer it to leaving alone that's why I moved out of the house I was renting alone and went to a dorm to live with other people and share a kitchen with them. I have selective mutism due to abuse in school so it's hard for me to open up with new people, however at home I blab all the time and my other complains I talk too much. As a kid I would spent hours on the phone. I loved talking on the phone and I am sure I still pretty much like doing it now. I prefer talking on the phone to written communication of any kind. Despite that I am good at writing assignments vs giving oral presentations usually but I guess my shyness can be blamed?
For some reason I'd love to be a stay-at-home dad as I like protecting and giving affection to someone weaker than me. I also adore animals. However, I'd rather take the kids for a walk and go play with them in the park than stay at home all the time. When I feel bored I go out for a walk or do grocery shopping. I am a grocery shopping addict but I think I do it not only because I like eating, but because there are other people there. I'd rather have a family picnic than walk alone in the park. I am empathetic. I am sentimental and I went out of my way to buy the same records that belonged to my grandma that were thrown away when we had a renovation. I get attached to places and objects as much as people. I still regularly visit my favorite childhood places. Heck, I am even attached to the area around my first work and I collect photos of it. My objective now is to learn to love myself and stop being critical to myself an others. I dislike criticism, negativity of any kind and sarcastic people. I also dislike irony. I prefer sweet and caring, positive and optimistic people.