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    Default What type would you say I am judging from this?

    Peoples opinions of me when the first meet me shy , quiet , modest , I carry myself well, stylish, innocent, friendly , just different but they can't tell me why I seem different, sometimes I give off a cold vibe with my stoic face at times. When I get to know people they see my more , witty, chatty ,honest , sometimes ask a lot of questions, opinionated I just say what I think although I won't care if other agree with I just like to share my point of view . I'm only opinionated when I feel comfortable around the people.

    - I over analyse social interactions like if I said something I'll look back and think should've said that maybe I shouldn't .
    For instance if someone hasn't text back I wonder if I was annoying them .

    - I remember me and my friend had planned someone to meet up sometime during the week it wasn't confirmed when I sent the text to try and arrange it. She took a few days to respond when she did she suggested that we could take a short walk in the evening . I value my evenings on that particular day knew I wouldn't feel like going for a walk so I suggested something else then she said she only had a small time so I said maybe we meet another time instead and ask which day. I again don't get a reply back so I spend my time wondering if maybe I did something wrong that I should've agreed to go for the walk. I overanalyse the whole thing thinking I must've made a mistake .
    Other things like the way someone would usually reply after saying sometimes like see you later and the one time they don't say anything or take longer I start wondering if I said something wrong earlier in the conversation . Just thinking why did they do that? When they usually say this?
    Or even something like a random guy smiled at me for the whole day I'll be wondering why on earth that guy was smiling at me?

    - I have a strong gut instinct in fact when I go against it I always run into trouble in to when I then tell myself " I should've followed my gut.
    Often when I've gone against my gut eventually I'll go back and follow it. I've had times where I got a feeling something would happen for that week I'll know about it before it happens I'll almost be waiting for it to happen looking for the signs. Sometimes I've made decisions because I felt something bad would happen halfway through my college semester I decided to take a break an repeat next year as I had a bad feeling about how the exams would turn out as my gut was telling me it was a bad idea to continue.

    - When I cry it's from anger when I've got to the point where I can't control the situation .
    Sometimes about emotions gets me crying as I'm used helping others then when I'm on the opposite end the person is trying to help me I cry trying to talk about time . Sometimes I find I have to write down what I want to say or else I'll just start crying. I'm sensitive about what people think about me although I don't always show it.

    - I tend to look at reviews before purchasing anything. I'll look at the features then spend time researching to find out other experiences with the item in mind before I make my final judgement. If stuck between two or more I'll look at the pros and cons then come to a final decision

    - Sometimes I look at suggestions people say to me about different things in a black and white way. I'll quickly dismiss it won't see how I could possible do that I just won't consider it. After a while I'll go back and think hmm...I wonder start looking further into that suggestion considering it realising maybe the person was right just I quickly dismissed it not taking it for face value.

    - I need constant assurance when I'm right about something I might figure something else I'll feel need to explain it to someone else to get them to agree with me to confirm that I'm right just to make sure I haven't made a mistake just to know I was right.

    - Almost always have a song stuck in my head even if I've just heard the song once.

    - I'm very image conscious always obsessed about how I look , what I wear etc always trying to improve my body even after reaching my goal I get quite perfectionistic about myself.

    - I relate very well to Elsa in Frozen the way she appears in the movie just reminded me of myself.

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    INFJ? Elsa is classified by some fans as one, but you seem like you could also be an ENFP. High possibility of NF here.

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    INFP. Reasons:

    "I over analyse social interactions like if I said something I'll look back and think should've said that maybe I shouldn't ."
    This is an introverted social trait.
    "I have a strong gut instinct in fact when I go against it I always run into trouble in to when I then tell myself " I should've followed my gut." Intuition is not dominant.
    "I'm sensitive about what people think about me although I don't always show it." This is Fi. With intuition as secondary, this makes INFP.
    "I absorb energy like a sponge everywhere I go. It allows me to see the world and my purpose in it." Zak Bagans, Ghost Adventures (INFJ)

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    1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind.
    I'm 21.

    2. Study these two images*here*and*here. Which one do you prefer and why? How would you describe it?

    I prefer this one
    I like the way the ocean looks against the colours of the sky seems like a beautiful place to be in the dark at night with the stars in the sky.

    3. Please describe yourself as a person if you were to introduce yourself to someone else like in a cover letter. What kind of person are you and why?
    I find it quite hard to describe myself . I'm very curious and analytical I just like to know about everything and anything. It takes time to get to know me I'm fairly closed off once you get to know me you'll see a different side to me that most people wouldn't get to see . My witty ,friendly just very easy to talk to about anything , I'll be more opinionated.

    4. What kind of person would you LIKE to be? Why? What kind of person would you NOT want to be? Why?
    I'm not quite sure but I like to be able to keep some sort of mystery about myself a lot of the time.
    I'd never ever want to be the sort of person who is bitchy , moaning all the time , short tempered.

    5. Do you think there are any differences to how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that are you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
    Well the way I describe myself is exactly how I am although not everybody will see me as this way I've described myself since I'm guarded a lot of the time. In places college with people I don't know people tend to either think of me as quiet and friendly or possibly arrogant or aloof I don't know why since that isn't like me at all only since I can do my own thing not always make the effort to get to know others I just want to take my time or be alone sometimes. My friends would see me how I described myself analytical , aa great listener, I'm good at giving advice , honest honest. Although everybody will see something different about me as I show different parts of myself depending on who I've with I'm pretty guarded in general so a lot of people don't really know me deeply.

    6. What in life do you find to be of importance? Why? If you are unsure you can always take the*Value Test*and post the results here. Do note that it helps if you narrow it down to 20 or ideally 10 values as suggested at stage 2.
    The values which are important to me are love, health, fitness , creativity , happiness , motivation, trust and ,honesty, adventure

    7. How do you react to new situations in your life? Can you describe an event in your life where you were in an unknown situation? How did you deal with it?
    Starting a new course in college after changing my mind about courses. I felt anxious at the time about everything , getting to know others , the course just wanting to make sure I made the best decision. I kept to myself for a little while I just wanted to get used to being there take time to settle in before trying to attempt to get to know others also since I'm guarded I find the whole making friends part difficult sometimes.

    8. Please describe yourself when you are in a stressful situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
    I don't get stressed easily guess when I'm studying for something like maths if I can't figure the answer out. I'll spend ages researching or watching youtube videos if still I can't work it out. It makes me really annoyed sometimes I have I just stop before I go insane. Usually when I'm thinking about any particular thing in mind and I can't find out or just don't know that's what stresses I can't stop thinking until I've found the solution.

    9. Please describe yourself when you are in an enjoyable situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
    I'm alot more open , I smile more , I'm relaxed about everything.

    10. Describe your relationship to socialization. How do you perceive one-on-one interaction? How do you perceive group interaction?
    I don't really care about socialising it's okay sometimes . One on one or small group conversations are great I'm more myself it's much easier , less people. I don't enjoy group interaction as much I find it mainly draining unless I'm close to the people. I'm not that comfortable.

    11. Describe your relationship to society. What are the elements of it you hold important or unimportant (e.g. social norms, values, customs, traditions)? How do you see people as a whole?
    Hmm I don't really pay much attention to any of that . I see everyone equally yet different at same time.

    12. Describe your relationship to authority. How do you perceive authority? What does it mean to you, and how do you deal with it?
    I don't pay much attention to authority but they have so much control over everything which is annoying. The way they can focus on certain aspects when there are others things just as important.

    13. Describe your relationship to order and chaos. What do order and chaos mean to you? How do they manifest in your daily life?*
    It depends there are certain things where I absolutely need order in order , other things I don't mind a little more chaotic like my room but everything has to have it's place it's somewhat messy yet organised.

    14. What is it that you fear in life? Why? How does this fear manifest to you both in how you think and how you act?
    My biggest fears are failure and rejection they sometimes stop me from going towards what I really want or my goals as i'll be so focused on the fear.

    15. What is it that you desire in life? What do you strive to achieve? Why? Where do you think these drives and desires stem from or are inspired by?
    Just to be the best I can be and continue improving in every way possible keep learning about different things exploring my interests. I'm usually inspired by what I see or myself.
    16. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?
    a) The gym as it's the only time where I won't be thinking too much. Watching tv or walks , shopping, just being in my room alone.
    b) Being around big groups it's harder to get involved.
    17. Why do you want to know your type? What type do you think you are? Why this/these type(s)? Is there a type that appeals to you, to your self-perception, that you would like to be? Why? If you
    know your*enneagram, please post this here. If you have done any online function tests such as the*Keys2Cognition, it helps if you post these results here as well.

    Here's what I got in a cognitive test
    Introverted Intuition (Ni) – 68%
    Extroverted Thinking (Te) – 65%

    Introverted Feeling (Fi) – 62%
    Extroverted Sensing (Se) – 60%

    Introverted Sensing (Si) – 57%
    Extroverted Intuition (Ne) – 55%

    Extroverted Feeling (Fe) – 45%
    Introverted Thinking (Ti) - 38%

    Well I'd been looking into mbti quite a while I've scored anything in tests ISTP,ISFP,INTP,INFP only occasionally INTJ not often in tests. I've been looking into all of these over a long time. Firstly INTP I was that for a while quickly realised I wasn't that interested in the topics. ISTP it was okay for a while I started looking into threads how they act in situations realised acted differently. INFP I didn't need to look into I know someone who is INFP we are very different. ISFP the Fi must've been what made be think I was that I had two of my friends do the test both got ISFP after taking time to think realised how different we act , when both of those are pretty similar. Also I felt like I esd so used to the mbti tests that I could easily manipulate the test to get whichever I wanted I'd just stopped trusting it. I never actually looked into INTJ I didn't think it was possibly for me to be “J” type being indecisive or having a messy room yet organised at the same time.

    18. Finally, is there something else you find to be of importance you want to add about yourself you think might be of relevance when helping to type you?
    Sometimes I feel the need change my identity a lot or I feel I've gotten too close or the person knows too much about me and it freaks me out .

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    I mean like Elsa in the way she can appear cold and wouldn't want to show her feelings to everyone .

    @Mal12345 I overanalyse everything not only social interactions pretty much everything I'm interested in I just need to find out as much information in it as possible .

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