I think I have more 7ness here in the board than in real life. This is especially noticeable in me when comparing myself to some ESTP women I know in my life. Energetic go getters who jump into things I see in them, which I am not exactly not, but more so as I've grown up and learned than something which is natural to me. However I am indeed a go getter comparatively. It could be as I've said, something I've learned, therefore has ended up becoming a part of my personality.
Did you mean emotional intimacy?
Before I start it should be stated that I am 26 and is currently avoiding serious relationships due to a very specific reason
I am glad that the gorgeous, socially compatible, likeable/lovable (to my eyes of course) girls I've met in the last couple of years/months have been/are in relationships, so I don't have to feel regret for not pursuing them
. However there was one girl that I met a couple of years ago (before I made up my mind not to be in a serious relationship due to that specific reason) who was single and compatible but my attempts to get to know her and date her never worked out and I still think about that girl like an idiot. So I am not entirely a cold, calculating creature with 100% control over my emotions.
I have been quite distant and is extremely calculating in my emotional bonds in the relationships I've been in. However, none of the relationships I've been in have met my compatibility standards, therefore have ended up without me even trying to make bonds. I've been in, sought and still actively seek sexual relationships. However, I have been quite careful as not to 'hook up' with women who might love me/assume a serious relationship or 'bond with' them since I am only looking for sex. Those are the very few instances in my life that constantly remind me that I have genuine ethics.