However (and also), I do have a good belief in self in my ability to competently slip into a social hierarchy/gourp (feel a part of a group) and have an instinctual ability to know where to stand, to whom next to stand and when to stand :). That sounds terribly SO dom doesn't it? However I know that I only developed a concern for a social/political group bonding during my late teens.
Haha I don't think So/Sp are nice or too virginal. They seem socially highly appropriate which I am not. (I do know how to be socially appropriate, don't worry ;)). It's just that I could often get difficult with groups not having the patience to: not point out the obvious, humorous, imaginative and be rude etc. (I have the need to be rude when I want to.) Also So/Sp seem a bit nervous, as if they are trying really hard not to have misunderstanding or their opinions hurt/disturb others/someone, which I definitely don't have the issue of. (But I do try to keep social/group harmony and electrocute people every minute either.)