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    Quote Originally Posted by Chaotic Harmony View Post
    Aww, thanks! I liked @wolfy 's response to #10 .
    lol, thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?

    people have said they like my kindness. I like my kindness and moodiness
    You like your moodiness? Teach me your ways! I have yet to come to peace with mine.

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    1. What is beauty? What is love?

    Beauty is when something pleases your senses. Love is a really awesome, useful construct that explains what goes on in ourselves. It's also amazing.

    2. What are your most important values?

    Improving myself, self-reliance and sufficiency, independence, being there for others, having honor, living, and seeing.

    3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?

    I'm pagan.. I borrow from concepts people have created in different religions that help me improve myself as a person. I think there are things unexplained by science much as I love it.. and because of that, I subscribe to religious/spiritual views. Spiritual is a more accurate term. I like the concept of paganism and rituals.. it makes me feel focused and on the right track. So I do them.. My views of Gods are.. distorted and still forming.. but I'm working on it.

    4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?

    Power is the ability to do. It'll never leave, and the more you CAN do the more you will typically do.. and I think that's where the downfall lies. War is... something we created. If we wanted it to stop, it would stop tomorrow. But we, as humans, don't truly want it to stop. And so long as we don't want that, military forces are necessary. When you go to war, it is easy to understand why humanity wants it so bad to stick around. It's something peaceful people just won't ever understand.

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    5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?

    I have long conversations every time I'm able to. You get to the root of what people are saying, and who they are, when you get them to talk longer. Eventually people run out of mechanical reflexive things that are mandated by society.. and they start talking about the things they didn't have time to think about beforehand.

    6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?

    Absolutely. I love it.. I'm a little obsessed with it, because I'd like to be the first in my families that didn't end up with Alzheimer's, or diabetes, or hypertension and rare muscle diseases and all that. I'm not focused on health in a 'how do I look' sort of way.. I think I'm a little less preoccupied by it than most women my age, but I'm still human. I do like the way muscles look and feel.. I enjoy being strong. And I'd like to be strong. So I work for that when I can.

    7. What do you think of daily chores?

    If something has to be done anyways, your attitude is everything. I could hate chores easily--but why? They're necessary, and I could live my life like a slob if I truly hated them. But I don't. I like their results.. So I make the best of it, and find ways to enjoy what I do. Routines focus you, and keep you from being stressed out. Daily chores takes a lot of the stress out of things. You can get by a long time with just a little 5-10 minute clean up.

    8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.

    Recently watched films: Welcome to the NHK (So far.. Okay, but randomly really sad), Orange is the new black (I can't relate to the main character at ALL.. fuu..), Un Gars Une Fille (I love that show, even if I can't understand it right now), and Kaamelott, a really funny and well done comedy show in French. The only books I've read lately are study books.

    9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?

    Cry: A show being sad, feeling for a moment like I am annoying--which is a perpetual fear of mine that torments me.
    Smile: My boyfriend, knowing I helped my sister today, and my mom moving around and getting better.

    10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?

    In my current environment not at all. I feel very grounded when I travel. Lately I've felt more like I belong when I'm talking to my boyfriend and my best friend. I think I'll feel more like I 'belong' when I settle down in a house of my own and start working again.

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    11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?

    What other people see: A need to be interesting, some laziness, and overworking myself, caring too much about things that won't matter down the road.
    What I see: Fear of other people growing tired of me (a vicious cycle hahaha), caring too much about things that depend entirely on current actions and dedication, my temper, my inability to say things the way I want to say them, the way I've developed this habit of crying and being quiet instead of being belligerent when I'm angry.

    12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?

    What I've heard: I'm a great family member, I care, I'm dependable, I'm loyal, and I'm honest.
    What I like about myself: That I can do nearly anything I put my mind to.

    13. In what areas of your life would you like help?

    I'd like help with finding a great piece of property to plop my empire on.

    14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.

    Yes. Currently. It's a self-induced one, with nothing but time and effort to fix it. Last time I was in a rut I didn't realize it, and that was way more painful.. It took me a good year to recover from that. I had fun still, which is why I didn't even realize I had put my own life on hold for no reason at all.

    People & Interactions
    15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?

    I like it when people are genuine, but I also like it when people take others into consideration. I like it when people are not so bureaucratic. I like when people accept responsibility. I dislike it when people change so drastically that I can't keep up.. When they make excuses and don't look within themselves as the cause of things. When people don't have the courage to face the things that scare and worry them. I generally get along with most people as long as they aren't as stubborn as me.

    16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?

    I like both of those things, the latter more though. I want the qualities my boyfriend has.

    17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?

    :/ My main concern would be that I would feel detached from it in its early years. I'd need a really really great dad to take over those first 4-5 years and be the main contributor to that child's development. I just cannot handle babies.

    18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?

    Depends on how much I care about what they're saying, and how much of a dick they're being about it.

    19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.

    Apathy is, to me, the main problem of the current people controlling the world. I'm part of society, and I feel pretty connected to it. I didn't always. As a whole I think people want to be good--but have instincts that contradict that.

    20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?

    Usually initially by similar interests. Depends on the friends. I'm not going to talk about hippy stuff to my group of gamer dudes. I'm not going to bore my nursing student colleagues with tales of Warhammer adventures.

    21. How do you behave around strangers?

    Like myself. I'll try to be a little more considerate with my language though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by skylights View Post
    You like your moodiness? Teach me your ways! I have yet to come to peace with mine.
    Yeah, I don't know. I guess it adds flavour, like a smokey grill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    1. What is beauty? What is love?

    Beauty is when something pleases your senses. Love is a really awesome, useful construct that explains what goes on in ourselves. It's also amazing.
    I like your answer. And answers. Your type is enfp and enneagram 8.

    People can random type my answers too. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge

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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?


    :/ My main concern would be that I would feel detached from it in its early years. I'd need a really really great dad to take over those first 4-5 years and be the main contributor to that child's development. I just cannot handle babies.

    I know everyone always says it's different when it's your own child.... but in my case it was true. To this day I still do not like holding babies. Since I've had my daughter, my SIL has had two more kids, and my BIL's girlfriend had one. I haven't held any of the babies. However, it was different with my daughter, I held her and took care of her like a pro.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Chaotic Harmony View Post
    I know everyone always says it's different when it's your own child.... but in my case it was true. To this day I still do not like holding babies. Since I've had my daughter, my SIL has had two more kids, and my BIL's girlfriend had one. I haven't held any of the babies. However, it was different with my daughter, I held her and took care of her like a pro.
    Babies, so weak at the neck. I can hold babies but am at a loss what to do with them if they aren't my own. You can't juggle them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    Babies, so weak at the neck. I can hold babies but am at a loss what to do with them if they aren't my own. You can't juggle them.
    That's why I avoid other people's babies. And let me tell you, most the women I know do not get this! They constantly ask "want to hold her?" For God's sake no. I didn't ask for a reason.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Chaotic Harmony View Post
    That's why I avoid other people's babies. And let me tell you, most the women I know do not get this! They constantly ask "want to hold her?" For God's sake no. I didn't ask for a reason.
    Funny people.

    In your avatar, the light shading around your head makes the person look like they are wearing a fast food workers hat.

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    Lol, I like the grill simile.

    You guys are funny about babies. I love them because they're cute and their skin is all smooth and chubby and they do funny things. I just don't know what I'm going to do when they get old enough to understand that I just like looking at them and laughing.

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