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Everyone: Enneatype me

What enneatypes do I have?

  • e1

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • e2

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • e3

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • e4

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • e5

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • e6

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • e7

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • e8

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • e9

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    7

Kullervo

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That said, you don't strike me as cut-and-dry as an e5. I dunno how much of this part of yourself is suppressed IRL, but if these are your real thoughts and not something you have to put on as a front to get into your "combative debating" mode then 6w5 would make much more sense. I think [MENTION=10757]Nicodemus[/MENTION] types as INTJ e5 (although I'm sure to him it doesn't matter much either way), and there's a blatantly obvious difference between the way you two present yourselves that couldn't just be accounted for by a difference in instinctual stacking.

Although I really miss his flirty side. I think I've neglected him too much recently. :cry:

I am not 100% on e5 either; finding me a tritype is why you guys are here, remember? Everything I have posted in debate is sincere, why would it not be? What I am saying to you now is that the kind of thoughts and affect I express here don't preoccupy me all of the time.

There's no question that there are many, many, differences between myself and Nicodemus. I thought he was an e5 but probably a 5w4 (he doesn't have the INTP-ish feel the 5w6 INTJs do)
 

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so/sx? :thinking: Dunno, usually someone could be a completely different type like an ESTJ e1 and I'd still relate to them if they were so/sx ([MENTION=4945]EJCC[/MENTION]). There's a lot of interpersonal warmth going on and a positive/accepting attitude to draw people in. I could see so/sp, and since he said himself that he comes here to debate, he's drawing from his more counterphobic side that is usually less present IRL. Dunno, from his pictures in the picture thread he seems a lot more soft-spoken and guarded. But basically I could really see any stacking for him that isn't sp-last, just from experience.

The connection to 3 is definitely something I agree with though.

At first I thought sp/sx, but he started seeming way too concerned with making a contribution, finding a community or social climate that would secure himself and his future, group trends, the "us vs them" team-thinking that social 6s often fall to; and I believe his disintegration is making him anti-social in the way that an sp dom would become reckless or self-destructive, or an sx dom ... critical of relationships or something?

I give him sx because he seems to go on so much about his ideal mate and who can't find a mate and which people should be doing more and less mating. I could see so/sp too though.

I'm only sure he's cp6; probably either 612 or 613.
 

Kullervo

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But is this combative debating not representative of who you are? Do you debate about topics and in ways you do not relate to in real life?

Oh, it is a part of my personality, for sure. What is not representative is the ease at which I do it here - I am a very poor debater IRL. This is probably because of SAD, the trouble I have communicating with people I don't know, and most of the time I tend not to speak before having thought the answer out internally.
 

Kullervo

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I will also add a poll to the thread. Multiple choice obviously. Just select the three types that you think make up my tritype, though, i would appreciate people posting their reasons for each choice in the thread as well...

As for instinctive stacking, there seems to be a tentative agreement about sx/sp.

[MENTION=10654]Noon[/MENTION] My interest is these things is very academic/theoretical. I am not that interested in socialising and my desire for a wider ethnicity-based community is for practical and political, not emotional reasons. Re other people I am only interested, at the moment, in getting laid (and unfortunately because my sex drive is so high whenever I lie down in bed I start having visions about sex).
 

HongDou

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I am not 100% on e5 either; finding me a tritype is why you guys are here, remember? Everything I have posted in debate is sincere, why would it not be? What I am saying to you now is that the kind of thoughts and affect I express here don't preoccupy me all of the time.

Yeah, this is more or less some sort of indirect interview. :alttongue:

For tritype, I'd say 6 core. It's hard to tell about the other fixes, but I'd say either 1 or 9 for gut (1w9 and 9w1 particularly, but I don't think wings in tritype that aren't your core are really that important) and the heart is harder to tell...I could see 2w3 in the very back. But 612 sounds a little overboard, so I'd go with 692 if you agree on e2.

I'm only gonna vote on e6 for now until I'm more certain.
 

Kullervo

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Yeah, this is more or less some sort of indirect interview. :alttongue:

I know that ;)

For tritype, I'd say 6 core. It's hard to tell about the other fixes, but I'd say either 1 or 9 for gut (1w9 and 9w1 particularly, but I don't think wings in tritype that aren't your core are really that important) and the heart is harder to tell...I could see 2w3 in the very back. But 612 sounds a little overboard, so I'd go with 692 if you agree on e2.

I'm only gonna vote on e6 for now until I'm more certain.

OK.
 

Kullervo

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Strong poll results.

I want you or someone else to explain what of e1 you see in me. Because I don't really understand why at all, just looking through e1 profiles.

e6 and e3 yes. But e1?

Type 1 Enneagram Type Description |9types.com I don't relate to much of this at all.

(from the e1 profile)

How to Get Along with Me

Take your share of the responsibility so I don't end up with all the work. (Yes)
Acknowledge my achievements. (Always good but I'm not dependent on other peoples' validation)
I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine the way I am. (Yes)
Tell me that you value my advice. (I don't need to be told this, wtf)
Be fair and considerate, as I am. (I wouldn't say that I'm the considerate guy tbh)
Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive. (Don't just apologise. Do something for me to show you are sorry.)
Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first. (Nope.)
 
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I want you or someone else to explain what of e1 you see in me. Because I don't really understand why at all, just looking through e1 profiles.

e6 and e3 yes. But e1?

Type 1 Enneagram Type Description |9types.com I don't relate to much of this at all.

(from the e1 profile)

How to Get Along with Me

Take your share of the responsibility so I don't end up with all the work. (Yes)
Acknowledge my achievements. (Always good but I'm not dependent on other peoples' validation)
I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine the way I am. (Yes)
Tell me that you value my advice. (I don't need to be told this, wtf)
Be fair and considerate, as I am. (I wouldn't say that I'm the considerate guy tbh)
Apologize if you have been unthoughtful. It will help me to forgive. (Don't just apologise. Do something for me to show you are sorry.)
Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries first. (Nope.)

I can see you possibly being an eight. I'm not sure, though.

Do you know your instinctual stacking?
 

Kullervo

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so is the lowest in my stacking. I don't relate to most of that description. Some of it is near the complete opposite of my mentality.

Especially:

Social Ones live by the moral and legal rules as they understand them.

As much as I can, I go by my own rules and not standards set by anybody else, and when I choose to, I only embrace the societal norms which are useful to me and sustainable.

Following something simply because it is a rule, even if it is stupid, is...stupid.
 
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so is the lowest in my stacking. I don't relate to most of that description. Some of it is near the complete opposite of my mentality.

Especially:



As much as I can, I go by my own rules and not standards set by anybody else, and when I choose to, I only embrace the societal norms which are useful to me and sustainable.

Following something simply because it is a rule, even if it is stupid, is...stupid.

Ok.

What about this? Enneagram Central - Subtype Eight Social
 

Kullervo

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To an extent. Nothing really stands out though, except perhaps my tendency to naturally classify people into groups (in-out thinking) and view people as either in my good books or bad books, never in between.

Also this

Eights' anger is in defense of an unacknowledged inner softness. They feel they can't share their inner softness, so they frequently take care of the small and helpless among us. Even Cobb, who is portrayed as systematically unashamedly vicious, took care of one of his old baseball buddies who had a drinking problem.

Though the above could be a counterphobic e6 mistyping...in which case we are back to square one...
 

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Here's another test I've taken. I feel pretty calm, relaxed atm (having a few beers in the lounge) so I thought it would be a good time.

Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||| 50%
Type 2 Helpfulness || 10%
Type 3 Image Focus |||||||||||||| 54%
Type 4 Individualism |||||||||||||||||| 74%
Type 5 Intellectualism |||||||||||||||| 70%
Type 6 Security Focus |||||||||||||||||| 74%
Type 7 Adventurousness |||||||||||| 50%
Type 8 Aggressiveness |||||||||||||||||||| 82%
Type 9 Calmness |||||||||||||| 58%

type score type behavior motivation
8 20 I must be strong and in control to survive.
4 18 I must be unique/different to survive.
6 18 I must be secure and safe to survive.
5 17 I must be knowledgeable to survive.
9 14 I must maintain peace/calm to survive.
3 13 I must be impressive and attractive to survive.
1 12 I must be perfect and good to survive.
7 12 I must be fun and entertained to survive.
2 2 I must be helpful and caring to survive.

Your main type is Type 8
Your variant stacking is sp/sx/so
Your level of health is very low, i.e. very unhealthy

Your main type is which ever behavior you utilize most and/or prefer. Your variant reflects your scoring profile on all nine types: so = social variant (compliant, friendly), sx = sexual variant (assertive, intense), sp = self preservation variant (withdrawn, security seeking). For info on the flaws of the Enneagram system click here.
 
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